Hey guys,

I'm a 16 year old guy in high school, and i was exclusive with this girl until we broke it off, however we were still into each other and continued hooking up. she's really into me but she's afraid to come too close cuz she doesnt want too lead me on to exclusivity.
she says shes not ready to commit, but she said that didn't mean she wouldn't want to in the future, she just wasn't ready now. After that convo we hooked up and she was lying on me and we had really good chemistry going on. today we texted and she told me she didnt want to lose me but she wasn't ready to commit. I told her to do whatever she wanted, and that i just enjoyed being around her and whatnot. i think shes nervous about the summer cuz schools about to end, and what would happen to our relationship then (we're both going away for 6 weeks) and as a side note she got out of a relationship 2 months ago. what do you think is the best way to play this out, any other general advice.

Thanks a lot,
Wiz

dude,

I'm totally missing out on what your goal is with this relationship... try to find that and use the goal to get an agreement.

Oh and concerning the summer. She is probably worried your gonna find another chick during that time and she can't stand the thought... Just talk some more about this and ask some more serious questions about her feelings... see what she really expects from this and then try to see if you want to live up those expectations and wether your expectiations are met.

But seriously dude, you are 16 years old??? And posting questions about relationship "commitment" on a pick up forum... I mean its OK with me. But trust me you have whole life in front of you and you will fuck up an succeed many many times in many many fields. Just take chances and follow your heart in a case like this. Use the forums for Pickup advice... nothing more.

try to have fun with the girl though and know this about old Bucc here... When I was sixteen I was a total AFC whom masturbated everyday thinking about all the girls in school (LOL). I didn't have serious relatinship untill I was 19. And this was probably after 900 rejections or so.

greetings from a dark harbour in Amsterdam...

Buccaneer

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I could not tread these perilous paths in safety, if I did not keep a saving sense of humor. -Admiral Horatio Nelson

Listen man, your 16, years ahead of you. If your into the girl, go with the flow, enjoy yourself, don't look at commitment yet. Your young!