Hi guys!


I have been going out with this really hot girl for a while. We have lots of fun, and she is the kind of girl who likes to tease and play some game.

We have not had sex yet, because she just broke up with her boyfriend( a week ago). Though we have slept together several times, and been nearly there, but I guess she doesnt want to have sex so soon after the breakup. But I can see she's struggling not too...

The question is, the other day we were sleeping together, and we made out for a long time. Needless to say, i got quite excited, and I stept it up a notch. She didn't mind at first, but after a while she sad, in a playful tone, that I got too intense. Since she laughed and sad it quite playfully, I think it was just a way to say that we should stop, cause we were nearly there. I did take charge like I havent before when we have done this, but I thought almost all girls loved the guy taking charge. I hate the idea that I have been "too intense", feel like a creep. hehe.

What is your thoughts? Is she just playing a game of letting me wait to get in her pants, or what?


Thx

I really like Mystery's "you're right we shouldn't be doing this" (while still doing whatever it is that "you shouldn't be doing") line to combat LMR... But that wouldn't really have been applicable in your situation.

However, another LMR buster that I employ would probably have worked wonders in your situation (I believe it is from 60 Years of Challenge, but someone correct me if I am crediting the wrong source). It is very basic, but it is also very powerful.

Just say nothing, move within inches of her face (as if you were about to kiss her but stopped), and then stare expressionlessly into her eyes until SHE breaks the tension. The woman will be shocked and intimidated... And she will do something to end it (in the best case she will kiss you).

Then you can escalate again from there... This time with much less resistance

This is basically an intense version of a freeze out. I imagine that it feels the same to the woman as it would to you if a woman just stared blankly at you halfway through a very emotion-driven story that she was telling you. You would be like "wtf?" and instinctively do something to break the silence.

She will similarly feel the instinctual need to break the tension if you do this to her in bed... And she will back down to you're alpha state by offering much less resistance the next time through (not only because she does not want to feel that terrible void you gave her by freezing her out, but also because she will likely be even more attracted to you for the dominance you showed).

interesting dan have you ever done this successfully?

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Yes, I have.

About a week ago I had a day 2 with a girl I met at a party the weekend before. She came over to help me clean my apartment so I could move out (the school year was ending and it was time for me to go home).

After we were done cleaning we went into my bedroom to "watch a movie" (even though I had a much bigger tv in the living room). I took off her shirt and her bra, but then she started freaking out. The whole "we shouldn't be doing this" thing helped a bit, but its welcome expired when I tried to take off her panties.

So then I just moved my head right in front of her and stared into her soul. It was really awkward for about 3 seconds. I could tell she was getting really uncomfortable as her expression changed a bit. Finally she broke the silence by simply saying, "what?" (in an ashamed tone as if she had done something wrong).

I then just started kissing her again and re-escalated with much greater success