Thursday night I witnessed my future as a PUA. I want sarging with my wing to a spot in manayunk for are newbie mission. Venue breakdown: 2 floors, bar on 1st floor, lounge, dance floor on the second. We talked to the stuff as we entered the venue (no ID’s needed because they know us). As we make are way to the second floor, scanned the first floor for targets always. Once on the second floor we had seen a horrible sight, no one on the dance floor. So my wing and I was the only people on the dance floor having fun Tyler Durden style.

It was hard to be one of two people on the dance floor and having the whole second floor watching are every move. But my wing said to push, so I push past my comfort zone and started to have fun dance battling my wing. A few song past (3 or 4) and a two set come close. The 2 set started to eye up me and my wing. I told my wing “Proximity” and he said to “wait for it”. Two more song past and a 4 set come out of nowhere. 2 set on the right, 4 set on the left. My wing signaled to enter the 2 set and we did.

Started to dance with one of the girls in the 2 set and started to give her some attention. Seen my wing grinding on her friend, so I started to grind on her. Gave her three solid songs then back to the mild of the dance floor but the space was gone. I take a good look around and there was nothing but girls around me and my wing. I mean girls no guys at all. I must admit I was confused about the situation a lot. So I started to look for the man because it was just a weird situation to be in, surround by girls and no other man around. I found the guys just watching the girls and us having fun. It was like a 1980’s high school movie went the prom scene come on. Boys on one side and girls on the other, except for two future PUA’s parting with the girls. It was like a wall holding them back. I few of them made the jump into the party but you could see that it take all their courage to cross over.

I spend the night hopping from one set to another just having fun and building attraction. My wing asked me “did I have a target?” I was like no. At that point I was honestly happy with the night, just being the center of the party with my wing. Plus I hopped from one attractive woman to the next it was hard to commit to just one girl to run my full game on so I just pick one. She was the girl in the first 2 set to approach by proximity. I started to run game and Isolated her from her friend well my wing had her friend. Moved off the dance floor to build comfort and talk in depth. We talk about life, school, the future, I future paced, high fived, all the good stuff. I #closed then we started to make out for a little. Some reggae song come on so I give her a lap dance and just had fun the whole night. Move to the dance floor and made out some more before she left the lounge.

I have learned time and again that your dancing skills are not that big of a deal. My wing has far greater skill in the area of dance; I “just fake it till I make it”, having fun the whole time. Girls just want to have fun and if you can’t dance just run with it. I myself have a few dances that are funny for that reason to show that I’m comforted with myself in these situations. Just have fun and the girls will come to you.

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nice job!
I am also the one who starts the dancing, and it works out really good, beacuse you show confidence I think. Dancing skills do not matter alot indeed. just a little bit of boogie .

Do you talk with your wing about what you are going to to that night? of you guys just go with the flow? I want one of my friends to be my wing, but they don't know about my PUA "secret" any advice?

Greets,

Seb.

i have been in this situation countless times! basically the best thing to do in that type of venue is just be alive. dont sit around trying to look cool. take charge start dancing grab a girl and do your thing.

and to sebduction.. i know exactly how you feel bro. basically what you should do is display your pua skills in front of your buddy and then explain to him how easy it is to be a pua and tell him you need a wing. thats what i did with one of my bro's and now hes learning the trade.

thanks for the advice GameBoyPocket,
I will try that some time! But I dont have a lot of experience on PU yet, I just started, so I think I will go sarging by myself or with a female friend of mine, who knows about it.

Also when people are dancing, and you see a HB, she most of the time has some girlfriends who are sitting/standing at the side. When you take them to the dancefloor and start dancing with them as a group its easy to introduce yourself and you show you are fun. ( it got me the number of the HB )

greets

Seb

GBP you are absolutely right about being alive. I seen so many AFC’s standing there in chump stands just watching all the action unfold before their eyes. The classic drink in one hand in front of the chest, the other hand in the pocket doing nothing to help themselves out. At first it was uncomfortable being the life of the party but as time past I learned that it’s pretty cool. The social proof and pre-selection are the best things that come out of being the life of the party. I have seen guys go from chump stands to opening and get twice the resistance because they have basically no value.

My wing and I just go with the flow of the situation. We make changes to try and maximize are success rate. So in the end I would say it’s 50/50 in the field.

Well I got pulled into the PUA thing by my wing and he basically showed me a confident and positive attitude. He cold approached and showed me basic PUA skills and what books to look at. I also think that your wing should be opened minded about things or pick up will be hard for them to except and learn.

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Phyuga, that dance off idea sounds great! I will definitely be using that. Cheers for the tip.

Sebduction, what I did a couple of weeks ago was tell a friend about Style's book, the game. I told him that some guy in a pub recommended it to me (true by the way. He stole a HB8 I was trying to pull. But instead of getting pissed at him, I asked how he did it) and that it’s a really funny read. He read it and he loves the pua thing more than I do now.

Thanks for the tips guys!

Now I have to make exams for two weeks, but after that I will introduce one of my friends with the book on a cool way
I think he will like it.

ciao!