i have a question that i need help with from you experts: for general clubs, sometimes the girl will sort of make some eye contact or you know has spotted you; she then comes close and pulls her hair up to expose the back of her neck. so the girl is kind of facing away from you and the back of her exposed neck is in front of your nose.

what do you do from this point to start the interaction, do you simply turn her by the shoulders and direct your opener?

i have seen this both in a general area of the club as well as on/near the dance floor.
when this is near the dance floor, is this sort of an invitation to dance with her? how do you start this without getting into her personal space? thanks for the help guys.

personally if this happens to me (especially if your near a dance floor), I would bypass any openers and whatnot and just simply ask her to dance (sometimes you don't even have to say anything, it'll just happen).

After your done dancing and your back at the bar/at a table or something THEN you can start gaming her. (obviously at this point you would skip the opener and move on to the next steps)

thank you Deke, that was very helpful. i shall try to watch out for this next time and follow the strategy you outlined. appreciate the help.

if this is not near the dance floor, does it work ok to just turn her gently by her arm to face me and run a situational opener, or is that too invasive/bold/rude?