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| Deke | PostPosted: Thu May 13, 2010 5:00 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu May 13, 2010 12:08 pm Posts: 18 Location: Florida | | Alright here's the situation...
I met this girl at a school club meeting about a month back. Something about her really interested me but it was the one and only time I've ever actually met her in person. We've talked very sparingly on facebook (only a few comments here and there, nothing too deep - I didn't want to put myself in that 'friend zone' or anything).
Right now we're both still up at school taking summer classes which just started this week. Since I've come to the realization I probably won't see this girl in person again unless I actually initiate something, I was wondering if it is possible to use the same PU techniques that you would use in person but via facebook?
I've only just started involving myself in the PU community so I'm not familiar with too many techniques, but I was thinking of going with a opinion opener, following it up with some conversation (interesting stuff, not your typical formalities), then asking her if she wanted to meet for coffee or something since we're both still in town.
Let me know if you think this could work over the internet and if you have any other strategies/advice.
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| Chelios | PostPosted: Thu May 13, 2010 5:33 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Mon Jan 18, 2010 7:34 pm Posts: 1541 Location: London, UK | | It depends on the girl I think, it can, but usually opening a girl comes from body language aswell, body rocking, false time constraints etc.
I tried sarging for a little bit online, I found it boring but honestly had a 50/50 success rate with opinion openers.
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| Trotyl | PostPosted: Thu May 13, 2010 6:17 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Sun Apr 18, 2010 2:15 pm Posts: 265 Location: Rdam, Netherlands | | I'd say yes and no. From experience I succesfully 'seduced' a girl on windows messenger/facebook kinda stuff, however I totally backed off when I asked her to watch a movie with me at home, we only kissed. This was before I knew about PU though. Couple weeks ago I met a girl and started talking to her on windows messenger/facebook and eventhough I (think I) used the proper techniques she suddenly doesn't seem interested in me anymore.
Conclusion: online stuff can work but there's always some major downsides. You can use kino, eye-contact and all that stuff. It's hard to really trigger emotions through tekstmessages she only skims through. And even if you do 'seduce' a girl she might be a major turnoff when you actually meet her (like what happened to me).
I suggest not spending to much time on girls online and try to get her to meet a.s.a.p. and of course dating is always more fun. I'd rather stare at her boobs (when she's not looking ofc, haha) than staring at my computerscreen.
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| Deke | PostPosted: Thu May 13, 2010 10:31 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu May 13, 2010 12:08 pm Posts: 18 Location: Florida | | Yeah thats pretty much what I was thinking. I mean I'm not trying to seduce some random girl online I actually met her in person first then found her on facebook after. I was just thinking about ways in which to get her to WANT to meet me in person that way I can use actual PU stuff to get her.
Thanks for the help.
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| Barnaby_prieto | PostPosted: Fri May 14, 2010 12:40 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Sep 10, 2009 4:05 am Posts: 15 Location: 831 Cali | | yes you can! use the online sarging section to help you out im pretty sure you can arrange to met with her during the summer
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