Didnt really know where to put this so I figured GQ would suffice. Im very new, and have not introduced myself yet but will asap.

Ill try to keep this short, but there's some helpful and inciteful(sp?) details.

My older cousin recently got me in contact with his GF's younger sister (HB8). I sent a picture to him and he forwarded it to her and vice versa, she approved and IOI'd (called me cute) and I got her number.

I messaged her roughly an hour after i recieved her # and made fluff chat (but trying not to give to much away) with sufficient C/F, and negging. (couldve DHV more but, it's txting, game is limited.) She seemed very receptive, and chemistry was all well first day. She IOI'd and shit tested me a couple times. No worries about the ST's.

I messaged her again the next night, (I know!!! probably shouldnt have, f'd up) and the convo trailed off quickly, so i later tried to re-spark interest with a one liner (second f up, i just about wanted to punch myself in the balls after i realized what i did) and she flaked.

Havent spoken to her since then so i kinda left on a bad note possibly coming off somewhat needy/clingy?

Critique me please!

BUT.. now here's the actual problem.

I am supposed to go hang out with her, my cousin, and his GF (her sis) saturday. Im kind of stumped on how to morph my game to fit the scenerio, being that our first/only comm. was through txt, and i have little experience in PU so far. (Im trying to form my game as tightly around Mystery's M3 model as much as poss.)

We are hanging out at my Cousin's for a while and partying a bit, i will be consuming minimal beverages to make sure my game is as crisp as possible. And then we're going lasertagging, possibly to a mall, and then back to my cousin's place. Obviously I can continue negging, C/F, DHV'ing, and winning over the obstacles (spec. her sister) as I normally would. But kino's never been my best aspect so im trying to think of some routines for each venue.

Where im stumped is:
- Is it acceptable to neg her in the opener or as a tail to the opener being this is the first time we have met in person and hung out before? (but i do have a couple legit neg's i could use, just dont know if that's negging a bit soon, dont want to blow myself out)
- Ill also kind of be screwed on Leader (& of men) DHV because im in unknown territory the entire time and theyre planning everything, im the guest.
- And my largest concern, any tips on indicating disinterest to her since txting her is already premature interest? i mean, im obviously there because they (cousin and GF) are trying to "hook us up." The only way to show a real IOD is to just not go which i cant do. HELP!!!
-How can i get her to invest in the attraction (examples/ideas would be awesome)?
-I have a history of making the "attraction and comfort only" M3 sequ. mistakes, any insight?

Help me out fella's! And helpful criticism is more than welcomed!
Once again, sorry for the length, this shit is long...

--Scotch

O shit.. PS
- Should I draw out the steps of M3 since it will most likely be a lengthy night, or just comfort, or attraction and comfort? (Not really planning on an f-close, if everything goes accordingly, k-close but will stop before S1 to avoid buyer's remorse)

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-Scotch

Take your time.
Go at your pace.
So what do you need help with? So far so AWESOME.
You did good.
MY MAN! That's the right attitude; no worries.
No worries at all.

It comes, I win, she loves, we fuck, move on, smile high.
FAIL.

Yet, I wonder; did you do it out of impulse, or what is the moment? Were you THINKING about calling her, or DID you just call AT THE MOMENT?
No, you thought.
Stop thinking. Thinking fucks you up. You had a chance, but you let hesitation come in, the window closed, and the green devil is laughing at your sumpy ass.
You mean there's more to the problem than THINKING?
Oh dear...
Oh, so you're good. A moment to rekindle the flame.
Shut the fuck up.
You're thinking again.

STOP THINKING.
Don't try, DO.
Trying is for thinkers.
Good man. Alcohol causes "stupid thinking"
Awww dude that's awesome.
SHUT UP AND STOP THINKING!!!!!!!!
Just go with the moment. When you get there, GO WITH THE MOMENT.

STOP THINKING!!!!!
STOP THINKING!!!!!!
STOP THINKING!!!!
(Seriously, that's your answer. STOP THINKING!)
No you're NOT screwed.
STOP THINKING!!!!!
STOP THINKING!
She knows you like her; just make her feel good AT EVERY MOMENT.
By NOT THINKING!
How about DON'T THINK.
Stop thinkin fella!
The only critique you need is to STOP THINKING!
Do not apologize. You have testicles.

...and STOP THINKING.
--Rune
STOP THINKING GODDAMMIT!!!!
If you have a paperback edition of Mystery Method: Rip out the page with the M3 model, go take a shit, and wipe your ass with it, as many times as possible, then, carry the shit-stained M3 page, go outside, get a lighter, and burn the motherfucker. Then...STOP THINKING.

If you have the e-book: Stop reading it, and STOP THINKING. When you habitually STOP THINKING, re-read it, then just ACCEPT it, without question.


Got it? Kool beans.

Wish you luck on Saturday.
DONT THINK.

lmao, alright, stop thinking. Always been guilty of over analyzing myself and situations. thanks for the tip broskie

--Scotch

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-Scotch

ok. You definetly took a hit by displaying too much neediness too early. But youre still in, so dont worry about it.. Dont show neediness whenever you see her this weekend. Show up and display higher value (draw attention to yourself) while showing disinterest in her. Obviously you want to be flirting with her, but you cant be outcome dependent at all. Do youre best to make her chase you, while not chasing her. Bait her to chase, good luck.