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PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 6:29 pm 
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Recently, I got a job at a really high end fancy Greek restaurant
the girls there :o I don't even want to start with the bartenders
they are HB 8+ solid. basically I am surrounded by gorgeous women and besides the workers, the people who come in and eat and also club are stunning. it turns into a club later in the night so I'm in a night game sceneary...while I'm working and I love it.

I want to take advantage of the situation but I would'nt want to date or fuck any of my co-workers just possibly befriend the girls and become close with them so we can kick it out of work :wink:

what do you guys suggest I do and I handle myself in this kind of situation ?


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PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 10:49 pm 
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1. talk to them
2. tell them you are gay
3. ???
4. PROFIT!!!


Seriously, talk to them is the most concrete advice I can give you. If you're really clueless about how to talk to people look into some conversational stuff.


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PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 11:16 pm 
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Talk to them definitely. Build comfort with all of them, girls will talk and if done well you'll be well thought of, meaning you'll have chances with them!


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Be friend them all.

False disqualify like what i did with two of my old co-workes by saying "i dont go out with people from work". Because you did this you and they will have more confidence to talk to each other.

Build comfort; take them out on dates like bowling or something active, my favourite at the moment is swimming.

Build attraction; be fun and flirty and push-pull.

I recently just ended a job and i am now on a week holiday, the second i left work, i gamed up a girl (A) and her married friend (B) (HB 9 easy, HB 8 for being in her work clothes ha ha) from next door to my old work (different store, same company like Currys and PC World) on the bus into town.
Bounce: As soon as we got off the bus A took me to dinner, then when we were in queue for the movies (AFC i know but she said i owed her) and instead of being bored i pivoted her and got the numbers of the girls (B & C) selling us the tickets and the girl (D) behind me in the line, i used A's ID card when i opened the B, C & D sets by saying "Dont you think she looks like Jessica Alba but with white skin?",
Kino building during the movie.
Walk home was my attraction phase where I time shifted and arranged to meet her monday night to show me her dancing skill and on her pay day to have a proper all suit dinner. Cant wait.
P.S. Iron Man 2 was so funny, and Romanov was so hot.


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Be friend them all.

False disqualify like what i did with two of my old co-workes by saying "i dont go out with people from work".
thanks for the advice
I already knew disqualification was key here
I haven't even introduced myself to some girls cause I dont want to make a bad impression
I'll definetly let you guys know if I get something going


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My first advice would be not to try to get in the girls' pants right off from the bat. Build a connection and use some humor to get her laughing. Then ask, whichever one you want out on a date and say where just going out as "Just friends" But dont try to overdo it. Then while your out start a little convo about work and ask about the other girls because you work their and it would be nice to befirned them.

Then, pick it up a notch and start gaming her. Little by little. You dont want her knowing that you want to fuck her during the 1st date. But if your game is fucking tight then you might as well go for it.


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Nah, just chill. You dont really need to disqualify. You are supposed to talk to them, you work together.

Just dont show interest in them, after working with them for a while its gonna feel natural. Just treat them like any other of your buddies. It shouldnt be a problem.

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the reason why you need to disqualify is so they dont get creeped out by any attraction building techniques. if you see them everyday and didnt disqualify then they will avoid you, tell everyone else in the club and you are no ones friends, just the creepy guy hitting on bar staff.
anyway, if you did false disqualify yourself and she tells someone at work you're cool then youve effectively got a pivot to potentially fresher and hotter girls at work and if you get invited out with them then all those girls are now your pivots to more fresher and hotter girls in a different scene. great for people who have just moved to a different town, city or country. works a treat for me :)

"too bad you work with me because im so into you after you said that, woah im not in that frame of mind - hang back because you're starting to bring out the bad in me and im trying to work here young lady ha ha, alright, you get a hug for now but dont try anything ha ha"

"too bad im gay, because im so into you right now" classic mystery saying

non threatening, first example above builds comfort too.

good luck and keep me posted. -x-


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the reason why you need to disqualify is so they dont get creeped out by any attraction building techniques.
No it is not the reason.

The only reason you need to disqualify is to not transmit interest during the approach. If your DHV routines show interest then you really need to change them.

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