Hey guys! Just joined the site, here's my story:

I went to an all-boys high school, so I never met many girls growing up. When I was 18, I fell in love in a total loser-nice-guy manner with a girl that was okay-looking at the time.

We had a long-distance relationship for 5 years. During that time, I gave her everything I had, attention, gifts, adoration, etc. but she never seemed to give me anything back. In fact, she seemed to get more and more demanding over the years. I was a dirt-poor student, but she still expected me to buy her expensive stuff. For example, I bought her an expensive mobile phone, but a few months later she was angry at me for not paying her mobile phone bills.

She told me that it was my responsibility as the man to support her financially. Oh, and she was getting fatter and fatter every year..

Being an AFC dumbass, I let this go on for much longer than I should have. Finally, 2 years ago, I left her.

So here I am, 2 years later, and I still haven't gotten laid. It bothers me that I've only ever gotten laid with that one demanding girl, so that's what brings me here!

As for myself, I'm not very tall, but I'm in good shape physically. I do martial arts and go to the gym frequently. I also have cleanly cut 6-pack abs, but that doesn't help one bit when meeting girls!

Anyway, help me out and I'll be happy to later pass that knowledge on to other AFC's. I can also help you guys with bodybuilding, health & fitness, or even martial arts tips if anyone has any questions!

Great you made it here

Take a look through the forum. And start reading like if the world is going to end in one month and the final test is about to come. ahah Just kidding.

Read "The Game" it's full of tips and will bring a nice enthusiasm out of you
Them read the "Mystery Method", then read some about body language. Also get some audiobook that are easier do get the information from. "The Game" also suggests some good reading.

Man you did the hardest, realizing you're a total looser and making it here. Now, it's time to invest, and forget about the past. Change yourself, change your away of thinking build a new person with new goals and free of attachment.

Take care

Hey I'm not a total loser! Only at dealing with women

Yeah I'm reading "The Game" right now, it's pretty interesting!

My advice would be to go out as frequently as possible.

Reading is helpful, but it can only get you so far. Learning from experience is much more useful and it will certainly boost your confidence.

Once you have done some reading and go out a good number of times, you will be able to create your own routine based off of what you find that works.

Have fun and stay safe.

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Manipulation is such a strong word... I prefer persuasion.

Thanks for the tips!

Yeah I feel the same way, I hate reading a bunch of stuff without actually practicing it. Any suggestions about what kind of places would be good for starting out? I'm not too familiar with the whole bar/club scene, so any tips would be helpful.

You understood me ahah

Welcome to the site, your honesty on this board will keep you in good stead, stick around even when you start getting success again.

You did the right thing ditching her. Never let a woman dominate = fail in my opinion.

Where you from? Gaming is best in pubs/bars. That way you can talk, once you get more confident, hit clubs, it's more advanced there.

hey man, where do u live right now. cuz if u live in London, we could go sarging together. and we could improve eachother's skills

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u dont live for ever...u never stay young forever....everyday that paases is a day closer to ur grave.....so go sarging for girls man

I am from London Shark, how about you? Post in the meet section. We'll arrange a meet.

Aha, I guess that's one of the things I've been doing wrong, I've always assumed that girls that want sex go to clubs, so I went to clubs. (Not that there's any good ones around here!)

I'm working in Scotland, in the St. Andrews/Dundee area. I grew up in America, so I have an American accent, which is supposed to be helpful, though I haven't had any luck so far!

Game my friend, the world is yours. Head to bars, get on it!