A shit test is:
When a women will often test guys.
It's important to know how to deal with feminine testing. This is one of the BASICS: Once you demonstrate to a woman that she can manipulate you, she loses all sexual attraction for you and designates you as a PAWN. You MUST retain control and be the MAN.
Why do women test men?
Women test men for all sorts of reasons, and it’s mostly an unconscious process. Attractive women have a lot of options, and prefer men who are STRONG OF CHARACTER. If you were an attractive woman being chased by hundreds of guys, how would you go about eliminating the losers? You’d TEST them, in subtle ways that test for strength and personality. If you did this on a regular enough basis, this behavior would become unconscious and automatic. Women will ALWAYS test you! Deal with it, learn how to handle it, and move on.
Why is it GOOD to be shit-tested?
The more attracted a woman is to a man, the more she’ll test him. Women don’t go up to 90 year-old men and say “You jerk!” and playfully punch them in the arm. They don’t go up to some horribly disfigured guy in a wheelchair and say “You think you’re hot shit, don’t you?” They do this to the men they’re attracted to! A woman is usually nice and polite with people she’s not attracted to, as social conventions dictate her to be. In fact, if a woman is being polite and overly nice with you, it’s a bad sign. But if she’s testing you by calling you a jerk or an ass, it’s a sign that you’ve aroused some interest in her, and she wants to see if it’s
justified.
When a chick does or says something which is meant to judge the reaction or response from a male, whether the test is done consciously or unconsciously. The specific words of the response are less meaningful than the method and mode (attitude) of the response.
The purpose of a shit test isn’t to annoy a guy or test his patience. It’s not done to be negative. A chick, particularly a good looking one, has many guys throughout her life chasing her for attention. She must deploy mechanisms which quickly test a guy to judge his “worthiness”, to test his mettle. The most efficient way for her to do this is to spring forth what are seemingly crazy questions without real purpose or to act in a way which seems incomprehensible. This is different than chick logic in that shit testing has a purpose. That purpose is to separate the men from the boys. And not just ANY men, but men worthy of depositing their seed into her feminine form.
This may seem like an odd way of going about things but, you have to look at it from the woman’s perspective. If she were to simply tell a guy how he should act or what he should say in order for her arousal to continue or escalate, she has no way of determining if he’s responding in a natural way or in a way just to please her. That is why believing what a woman says in a conscious way versus what she reacts and responds to is never a good idea (if your idea is to seduce her). She has to deploy a means which tests a man’s natural state, and determine whether he is saying something just to please her (“just to get in her pants” = “indeterminate worthiness”) or if he his own man who is in control f himself. A man in control of himself is worthy to be in control of their continued interaction. A man who “fails” her shit test is not worthy of further interactions.
How to pass shit-tests?
Ignoring:
Most tests can be dealt with just by ignoring them. You DO NOT have to take every communication seriously and respond to it. So if a test is given (let’s say she calls you a jerk), you can just smirk and continue your conversation as if it had never been said. The same principle can be applied when someone is getting overly emotional or dramatic with you.
Using humor: Applying humor in testing situations can be effective as well.
Taken from:
http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/fs ... Shit_Tests
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