Spitting game can be difficult, but using Alpha body language is very simple and it will get you amazing results.

I work in a busy store where I am sometimes surrounded by 5, 6, 7 women at a time.

When approaching women, I walk very slow and very smooth. With the exception of some calculated hand gestures, once I stop, I DON'T MOVE A FUCKING MUSCLE. I NEVER cross my arms, put my hands in my pockets, touch me face, shift my weight, or fidget in any way. Sometimes I don't even gesture. I will literally just move my mouth and let my arms dangle like they don't even exist.

When I'm with a customer I walk very slow and make them match my pace. I speak slow and I use pauses.

I have had women, who I have said nothing to except explain how a product works, give me MAJOR IOI's for doing nothing more than appearing comfortable.

Even guys will treat you a little different. People just assume you are more important when you are calm. Next time you are in a large group of people, look around and notice how most peole never stop moving. It really makes you stand out in a good way when you are in control of your body.

The best part about this is its SO SO EASY to pull off. I just make it a game and see how long I can pull off Alpha body language. I just pretend I'm acting in a movie. Although, I can tell that I am already starting to internalize this stuff. I use to feel uncomfortable when I walked slow. Now the opposite is true.

Anyone else experienced this?

Ye I totally have the same results. Been watching my bodylanguage and it does make you a more attractive person. However don't always be so stiff, try to open up while in a conversation because these things could backfire. Open hands talking can create comfort, since you already have your attraction. Being all stiff could make you look nervous or arrogant so try to open up during a conversation, that doesn't include walking on your hands n stuff but I think you get what I mean.

What do you do with your arms when you are listening to a person speak, instead of speaking? Because, like I said I use gestures when talking, but I don't know what to do when I listen, and I don't want to cross my arms.

Woman normally wants what you have.

If you keep your body language slow is very sexy for them.

I've been watching some Johnny Depp videos, and he's exactly that, he almost don't move... and he's the sexiest guy in the World.

Well, there are other thinks that you can use to improve the slow body language, as speaking slow and giving a lot of pause in what you are saying, this create mistery in what you say. And mistery is sexy.

All your hands movements should be like poetry.

I use this kind of technic a every time...

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Ye never ever cross your arms, it's a closed up pose. Spread your legs, feet pointing towards the sides, it's called the 'macho' pose. As for your arms just keep them beside your body. It's shows your open and not afraid. This gives you a dominant strong look and girls like that. Don't exaggerate though, just keep your cool. You can throw in a smile and some kino when she tells you a funny story.

Going to see how this works! Thanks..

It's not so much what you're doing, but what you're NOT doing.

women WANT reactions from us, they want that validation that they can make us react to them.

here's the glitch in the matrix:

By being not reactive to them, you can switch things around.

When standing you can put your thumbs in your trouser belt tags, sounds stupid but it works. Makes you look bigger. Policemen use it to give out a glare of authority.

Listen, I've been studying the game and body language for a few months. The other night I was leaving a club and had to walk through the busiest part of the bar.

I fixed my mindset that I was the alpha male and walked through the club with no fear, completely relaxed, shoulders back (not over exagerrated), chin lifted slightly (again, not over exagerrated), with a smile on my face, telling myself that I was a millionnaire. As I walked through the bar some HB 7 just grabbed me and kissed me, full on with tongues. People pick up on these signs subconciously.

This shit works man, BUT YOU HAVE TO PRACTICE.

Tips:-
Talk slower, move slower, be relaxed, fearless. The silverback gorilla (alpha male) moves slower than the rest of the troop (he KNOWS he is the shit).

Practice walking like you are a millionaire or a rock star.

Keep a notebook / journal on body language.

Good luck.

Good stuff! I like to pretend that I'm already famous.

Completely agree. A prime example I thought of was Vin Diesel, and I find him to be very sexy indeed.

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Nice post, man.


It provides a nice contrast to the common 'you need to be more animated with gestures' advice you usually here in the community.

However, this is where I feel there can be confusion...

A lot of new guys, who are very nervous/shy/anxious, they will either a) not move a lot b) move nervously.


Your post will obviously prove to be great help to the guys who are moving too much (nervously), but for the guys who don't move much, perhaps they will stay stuck in their ways.


Your post is basically comunicating to people that they need to be relaxed. And I'd agree totally. A good 'alpha' posture, is to pull your shoulders together (at the back) and stand up tall, it can feel very awkward and like it's not very relaxed, but you'd be surprised at how much better it looks.

Add to this a very seductive eye contact, and its gold.

I'm presuming this is what you're doing at work.


Top stuff.


Good Pick up coaches are usually adjusting your body language just as much as they're correcting your verbals. Shows how important it is.



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Few things, there are multiple powerful statements u can make with body language

1) hands in front Jean pockets with thumbs poking out is a sign of confidence
2) hands placed on tables or bars with just finger tips touching, which is a sign of authority. Depends on how girls respond to authority though some don't like it.
3) sitting with leg crossed at knee, comfortable win sexuality.
4) sitting with leg crossed regularly with hands crossed behind head sign of comfort and relaxation.
5) all finger tips and thumbs Touching with no palm contact, thumbs facing the person, arms relaxed at waist, and maintaining a very relaxed but good posture. Takes practice and can sometimes throw people off. Probably the most powerful human gesture, shows that u are a calm comforting person and that you are paying attention to what they say and are interested in whatever they are saying. Subtle because it's below where people look at unless they are looking at your crotch which isn't bad anyway. Fingers towards people is a sign of authoity so becareful with that, fingers pointing up is a sign of intense interest in topic.



I'll try to think of more and if I'm wrong on this stuff please correct me these are just my observations from going out last night and experimenting with stuff

I was thinking about body language that screams needy little bitch

1) touching your face without purpose.. ie.. touch ear, nose, mouth, neck, then move hand back down to waist.
2) don't cross your arms dad..
3) don't stick your thumbs in anything, except maybe belt loops like old dude said in the post above, that's an adolesence gesture for sexuality and can be used to convey sexuality.
4)don't rock around, but you can talk while leaning away in order to get her to lean in, at least if she has invested in u or u have shown enough value.
5) I like walking slowly like the gentleman said above, I walk with my hands in my pockets with thumbs out and a good smile and posture.
6) When I'm in set talking with hands in pocket it keeps me from moving towards them or pecking as some puas say, which Is terrible, speak louder make them come to u.
7)from your side for Christ sake don't face them directly like mystery and others say act as if your going to leave, but don't, three or four minutes in open your posture and face them, if you have a specific target that u haven't opened yet maintain a closed posture towards her until u can open her.
8)don't make grand facial expressions until 5 or so after opening posture. Then u can start kino on the group or individual.
9) slap her ass lol

any ways, you got it, just practice, go out to the loudest place u can and learn how to speak with your body fuckers
also work out three times a week and stop fuckIng beating ur cock into submission girls can sense that shit u Jack asses, the libido is your friend as well as the natural pharamones u produce.
Please critique me

Interesting. Ill adopt these mannerisms and see where it takes me. The one question i have would be in a club or other high enrgy location, wont you come accross low energy and if so, does that effect your set?