So been talkin to this girl on the phone, even tho she says she gots a man, im getting hints that shes not happy "Everyone says I should leave him" but im trying not to be in the friend zone so i dont really give input on that situation. *i hope not*.

She will ask "what do you think of me?" , she has asked this more than one time, i usually say "you seem to be alright, you had your fair share of trouble already but now got your head on right and doing ok". etc.. The day before she had asked the same question and i said "you seem cool, but people dont see that theres a lil girl inside of you, that always wonders what people are thinking about you" I think this response totally threw her off at the time and she defended against it lol.


What do you think this type of question is? Since she happened to ask it a 2nd time, perhaps shes hopping i will say im interested in her? something like "Hey I want to see you" . Im thinking I should have said that but perhaps that might have been AFC.

IMO it is definitely and indicator of interest. She is looking for your approval. I would say dont get to buddy to buddy with her as you will fall into the friend zone for sure. if you are interested in her, drop some IOI's of your own.


Disclaimer: PUA in training

yeah i was thinking this too.. even tho she said earlier that she had a man , then said that her ex left her, so i think this was a ioi or to see her value to me.

Anyways, since then, she is a mom so i sent her a mothers day card, totally blew her away *she calls me every day now btw* now im just trying to get her to go to a movie with me tomarrow.. "i wanna go see ironman 2 on friday, you should come out".. then she basically said "i think im free i dunno", then i go "alright well let me know" . Buddy of mine says he got the movie bootleg already, so might watch it tomarrow @ school, so even if she isnt up for it, i can still say i saw the movie and not actually lie about it.

Try this: "You're a beautiful girl, but beauty is common. You know what's very rare? Three things : a good energy, a great personality, and a great outlook. You have two out of three."

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Manipulation is such a strong word... I prefer persuasion.

don't want to be a bitch and all, this mught work out. But it all seems very afc to me. You need to escalate fast.

But on the other hand the nice chat-> 2-3 dates->maybe relationtip might work out

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