Hey guys,

This is a sex related question in regards to multiple girls.

I have a situation where I am sleeping with two girls.

Girl A: been together for 5 years, no condoms, great sex, never any issues, I always stay hard with her. Very sexy young girl, about a 9.

Girl B: been together for 7 weeks, no condoms as she was virgin when I met her and she is on the pill. I can get get hard with her but if we change positions or I try and do something different, she would laugh or say she doesn't like it and then i go completely soft. And there is nothing she or I can do to get me hard again.
She is also sexy but NOT as sexy as Girl A but would be around 7.

I am 30 yo, fit and skinny, don't smoke, don't drink or do drugs. So my problem is obviously psychological.

Ive also been taking ginseng, l-arginine, MACA, zinc and other supplements to get me more sexually active but they don't really work with Girl B. With Girl A I get super hard erections.

I had similiar problems in the past with another girl altogether and I overcame them with taking Viagra (when I was 25 yo) and afterwords quit taking it and could always get hard with that girl.

Ive been told my guys have the same problem but advice for fixing it varies from:

make sure you are fit and healthy and eat right etc (which I am and do anyway)

to

think dirty thoughts, relax, don't think about the problem and it will resolve.


It's really frsurating though when you wonna screw but your dick won't go hard...

Anyone got any insight or similar experience?

Go to a doctor

Ditto. Rule out the physical issues before thinking it's all psychological. Oh, and you're an idiot for not using condoms when you have multiple partners. Might as well get tested for STDs while you're at it.

Why see a doctor? It is obviously not physical as it works all fine with girl A.

Just don't stress about it, and certainly dont open a topic about it on a forum (ahhh too late). You probably assosiate her with getting a soft one, from now on. So leave it for a while and it will become better. If it doesn't work, stick with the HB9's and HB10's, your dick obviously has a exclusive taste.

Maybe you arent as attracted to her as you think you are...

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I have a doctor friend, he told me its all psychological... he said to thinky dirty thoughts about her etc.

I have no problems with girl A as even when she gets naked in front of me, i go hard.

regarding stds, i got an std check so did she plus she was virgin when she met me.

i think im just not that into her...sex with virgin chikcs sucks... so she needs time to get better... imo.

also my doctor friends said he has many people, young and old ask about the same issue. i guess its all chemistry in the end.

ps search google for this and youll find 1000s of similar posts... i thought a pua site may have more answers.

haha yeah i guess i gotta step it up cheers

Hey it's all in your head.

"with the exception of problems that are due to performance anxiety among younger men, whose erection difficulties tend to be more transient and short-lived, being caused by sexual and personal circumstances (i.e. over-excitement, anxiety about the partner, fear of discovery, and so on) rather than health or medical issues such as age-related diabetes or circulation problems."


Read this up on a medical website before. Hope that helps.

Does Girl A know you're banging Girl B? Or does she think you're in a long term relationship, i.e. you're cheating on her? I can't believe you would have the nerve to ask about how to cheat on your girlfriend better :O

I can.

Why not get them together for a nice threesome...

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn