I don't have the worst confidence but not the best. It seems like I'm always second guessing myself when it comes to talking to girls. I'm comfortable talking to girls and just people in general. But when I'm tryin to talk to a girl I want to get with, things get different.

I'm still comfortable just it seems like they never bite, and nothing ever works, so I second guess myself and think oh maybe I'm not good enough or good lookin enough. I do have one thing though, I'm naturally funny in every situation.

And the people I hang out with, some of them, I dont know where I stand socially and I feel like an idiot sometimes while trying to figure out things to do on the weekend, but thats irrelevant. Anything I can do to improve my inner game, to make me feel like they want me, to make me feel confident and appealing to everyone. I'm not shy anymore, I'm outgoing, and generally new people I meet tend to like me right away. I just have trouble getting the girl, and approaching and feeling confident. Any help?

yep go to david d website and have a look at the inner game packages, i bought one myself and dont regret it, good luck

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Any advice besides buying things?

yea pm me

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Thanks hobbit, but I can read as much as I want but I still wouldn't know how to go about the change, how to make myself better internally,

I often look at women, and if I get one lick of a possibilty with them, I get borderline one-itis, then when it doesn't work out I get mad, and begin to resent the person. Thats usually how it goes.

I can approach sometimes, depending who I'm with. If I'm with someone fun I can do whatever but most of the time I can't approach I think I can but then it turns out I can't MOST of the time, not all of the time. I can get a smile easily, a laugh too, but have a small hard time with numbers. Being funny is my thing so I use that most of the time.

I'll start to write down behavorial improvements and see where that takes me, but just stepping back from a potential one-itis, is easier said, than done.

You have got to understand that you have your own reality. YOU live in YOUR reality and you have to make it so people will be want to be a part of YOUR reality and not vice versa.

All true, and thanks Hobbit for those links, defiantly going to try the first one. I'm already sociable and can interact with everyone, being serious, friendly, or act like an idiot. Thats not a problem, but talking to EVERYONE will help a lot. I'll do that wherever I go from now on and see how it goes.