suggest that you date her friend?

This girl who I've been gaming, but haven't really been able to find much time to see asked me to come out for drinks with her friends the other night.

I didn't know any of the girls that were there, (there was 6 others) so I decided to be super out going and really control the conversation. Wanted the girl to see that I was outgoing etc.

Now the next morning she texts me saying "My friends loved you!" And then she wrote another one going "One of them thinks you're really cute, I want you to go on a date with her".

She texts me her number.

I set up a date with her friend for this Friday, but I still want the initial girl.

What do I take from all this?

you got put in the friend zone dude my suspicion you probs never made your interest in the target clear enough

shiiiit... i'm definitely in the friends zone.

is there a way out? or should i just nail her friend and forget about both of em?

id go for option 2 nail the friend for experience and then move on and game other chicks

thanks man.

but damn, this has got my brain thinking harder than normal.

screw it, if i'm going to bang her friend and forget about her, i'd rather just go for her and take the rejection and forget about her from there.

She is my target, i'm going to use her friend as a tool to get there. I'm gonna go on the date with her friend, and get her friend to brag about me because i'll really make her feel special on the date.

then since she's my "friend" she's going to as for details about the date. I'm gonna ask to meet up with her and talk about it, where i will run mad game on her and flirt like crazy before telling her that i'd rather be with her.

and whatever happens happens, but remember you can't get a yes without the possibility of getting a no.

thoughts?

your choice dude wouldnt advice the date with the friend though that will just make things worse girls wont hook up with there friends love interests in my experience

yes but attraction is what matters right, i'm trying to demonstrate higher value, and i really doubt one date is going to be a nail in the coffin.

i'll keep you posted, and thanks for your insight, but i'd rather not lose out on even a small chance with her even if it means i spoil the "friendship" i don't really care for.

it's really too bad my game worked on her friend, and i haven't really had the chance to get her in a 1 on 1 scenario to game my target. we've only flirted via texting and social settings with other people. Plus I've only ever gotten together with her about 5 times. before i even knew it her friend was asking her to set her up with me.

To play it by the books would be to go for the friend and have a good chance of getting laid.

But I say if she's not the one you want then why bother. Its not about how many lays you can rack up. Its about quality, getting the girls you actually want and not just settling. So I say follow through with your plan and go for your first target. But learn from your mistakes and next time get it right to start with.

If it doesn't work out there's like a billion other girls in the world.

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