Ive been posting a lot of posts the last week, and that's because my computer is back with all my material. I picked up a few quotes I read EVERY morning before I attend school... you should too.
Quote:
Never, ever, EVER make a woman the center of your universe. Once you realize that women are only an ASPECT of life, not the focus of it, your life will be so much easier.
90% of the people around you are average, frustrated chumps who buy into the self-serving romantic ideals and social conventions perpetuated by women. These ideals not only are not what attract women, but they can destroy you if you choose to buy into them. Be a heavy skeptic of the advice you receive from other people regarding women and relationships, since it's more than likely they let feminized ideals run the show in their lives.
If you're forming a long-term relationship, freedom has to be at the core of it. Don't let anybody ever try to control you. She can influence, but never control. You're outside working on your pet project and she comes along, whining that you never spend time with her. She's being manipulative and trying to control your behavior. Call her out on that ****. If she tells you that she'd rather you stay in and have sex then go out and play basketball with your friends like you do once a week, that's manipulative ****. She's trying to control you.
Don't take life so seriously. You know what, we are all going to get old and die. Let go of all your insecurities and just go for it; because, in the end, it is this quality that is most attractive to the ladies. Well-adjusted women love a well-adjusted man. And what display gauges how well-adjusted you are, simply confidence. The confidence to walk into a room of strangers and make it happen; the confidence to tell your boss you want to be challenged, and mean it; the confidence to see a woman you want to have sex with and to make it happen. Stop allowing the world to control you like a string puppet; you make it happen; no one else.
Woman are NOT the sweet innocent creatures you would like to believe that they are. She might have blown the entire football team in the locker room after the game in high school, and chances are about 99.9999999% that you will never know about it. Don't fall into the "She's not like that, she's DIFFERENT" trap.
Being the NICE guy doesn't land you women. Being THAT guy only lands you girl "friends". Loads of compliments, tons of gifts, and tons of attention DOES NOT WORK. While women like this stuff, it's because they know they can use you just like every other chump out there, and get free stuff out of you. Just because you give her things, doesn't mean your getting any, and dont think that's going to change anytime soon either. One way or another, YOU WILL LOSE, and that guy the total opposite of you will be giving it to her, while your at home gluing Hershey Kisses to a piece of paper trying to be romeo by giving her a piece of paper that says "here is a free kiss" the next time you see her. Stop being a homo, and leave that to the preschoolers.
If you sense it's not going to last, she does too. You can be the dumper or the dumped. ANYTHING you say to her friends, you also said to her. Male, female, doesn't matter. They were there before you, so expect that conversation will reach her ears in short order.
Be the Man. Don't show any hint of weakness or vulnerability in front of her or to her in any form or whatsoever. Especially when things are going to $hit and chaos is all around. Keep your cool and find a way out of it all. Be like Indiana Jones! No matter how grim the situation, there is always a solution. Let her freak out, throw temper tantrums, cry, moan, whine, and b1tch about the problems or the situation. You, be the Man, and work towards the solution.
Aloha
- Consistence
CHAT
