So i've been hanging out with this girl a lot and I wasn't trying to game her or anything but she's pretty cute and has a bf. She calls me over to her room the other night and says:
"My BF just called me and told me he totally had sex with some random girl at a party last night"
me: r u breaking up?
girl: No but this means i get a freebie and i can have sex with some1 and i totally think that me and u should have sex....but i wanna initiate it at a random time so its not awkward...

convo goes on but you get the idea.

She told me not to make the move but i really wanna get this over with cause this girls in my head now

what should i do?

she's just using u to make her Bf jealous, having sex on a chics terms is a huge DLV in my books.

sounds like she's playing u........it's a game i wouldn't be interested in.

DM

A few years back I got played by some hot little biscuit using me for her own pleasure. I agree with the comment above, if she wanted to have sex with you she would have, but instead she is using you to make her self feel better.

Be the player... not the played.

should i at least make a move to see what happens?

if you want the sex, no, that'll just piss her off. she wants to catch her bf off gaurd like he did her. but i recomend against the sex like your fellow sargers above. the purpose of all this is so that we are able to control our situations in our environment. you dont have control of either.

first of all give me some feedback... you sound young so I am going to guess you either in HS or College... in which case this little las your drooling after is very aware of her sexually power over you. I would say if your going to make a move then do it, but don't expect anything from it. She has already stated that this is just a rebound for her to get back at her boyfriend... also, worst case scenario... you don't know if she is using this as a way to make her BF mad, or see if he will do anything about it.

Trust me all arrows point to no.... I would say the only rebound from this is to tease her with it... tell her you don't want her, or your going to make her earn it... and that you don't just put out on demand. make her come to you. If any thing you could at least get some sort of strip tease out of it... in my mind that earns more then the sex.

alright sounds good...its not a big thing i'm a freshman in college there are plenty of women around but if this happens then all the better for me

If you want to do it I wouldn't give her all the control, make your move and if she gets upset and turns you away then tell her it's not a good idea to do this anyway and go watch tv (cat/string method). If she really does want to sleep with you and not just to get back at her bf then she'll come to you. If she doesn't you left her with the idea that it's not a good idea. She doesn't know if that means now or ever and you DLV'd her. If she asks tell her your not a tool for her to use for revenge and move on to a new girl.

~Surreal

closed it last night...made a move and she was totally willing and i guess her relationship is more open than i thought