hmmm.. im just starting to get into this whole pick up thing.
im a total newbie so bare with me here.

i picked up this school teacher whos 3yrs older than me. i decided to call her 2 days later and ask her to come out for dinna. she agreed. ok we met at 7pm. she was around 10mins late so i started with a 'IOD'? 'ur late! ok ur gonna lose some points for that 1' she said sorry and we started walking to a near bar/hotel and sat down.

ok here she started saying how young i am. lol so i used the neg 'u really gotta get over this age thing, its not helping you at all.' she said that she doesnt care. hahaha anyway, then we started tlking and i was doing my DHV how i like girls that can eat, also how i like girls that know how to cook. she said she didn't so i was like... hmm i guess u and me wont work out! and we both laughed it off. i gave some IOIs by complimenting her hair. and touching her on the shoulder when i had to go bathroom and that.

We moved to a different venue. i had my arms around her shoulder and it was goin reaaal good. she was touching me, giving me alot of IOIs. we had a few more drinks, decided to go home and got a k-close. i offerd to pay for her cab but she insisted on walking. i let her go. the next day i called her she was all good with it... but i got another call and told her i'd call back. but totally forgot and called her too late n she was alreadi asleep(i think).

few days later on a friday night i txtd her askin wat shes up to. she was so excited coz it was the weekend. i asked her wat shes gettin up to, she was goin to a house party and i said 'haha some1s excited~ am i coming?' and she said 'are you sure u wanna come its full of oldies' i told her i was alreadi in the city and she said she'll call me later to see what i'm up to. i txted her around 3hrs later saying 'u'd probably had more fun with me than them oldies ' she called me around 20mins after but i decided not to pick up coz i was already having fun with my friends. called me 3 times i didnt pick up...

next day i call her and she said she was 'too drunk' and said she doesnt remember calling me (BS) lol. i told her to come out for lunch n she said shes feeling too sick. i told her i'll be out near her area soon to get a hair cut n when i call she can come out, she just said maybe.

i had my hair cut and decided to call her.. no answer twice! and i txt her 'boo! as if not pick up ur fone!!' called her again around 8 at night. no answer. she txts me the next morning 'im sorry for not coming out yesterday!! as my defence! i was too sick!!'
i txt her back 'haha no need to be sorry. i see where your goin with this'
she replies 'huh?'
i said 'i don't like stupid excuses '
nothing since then...

is it all over? was i even gaming? i tried my best but it didnt seem to go well. i was trying to prove to her i have better things if she doesn't want to see me thats all. i need ur advice!! pro PUAs what do i do now??

few days

you can still get this one back i wouldnt have called her as much when it was obvious she was ingnoring you proberly trying to punish you for not ansering her calls makes you seem desperate i would have called once if she didnt anwser fuck it ill call someone else

also when you called her on her shit it showed she affected you that you were bothered by it and made you look needy

you can wait a few days and text her some random shit " im glued " always makes them think WTF is he talking about and nearly always gets you a reply

i always choose the fun and playful route such as

" have you died or something "

i dont think you need to make accusations immediatly after she doesnt answer a call.. you should have called once and said fuck it (like mrmonk said) and forget about her until she called you back. if she doesnt text you or anything in the next 3 days i say you call her and say u were havin a bad day and make up some excuse and ask her if she wants to do anything.

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hmmm.. so wait for a few days n contact?
im just wondering about my game.. was it good? wat needs fixing and all that kind of stuff. I'm really getting into this and i really need the professional advice.

Just today as well, there was a girl at my college and shes also older.. but i thought it was going arite.. i mean the opener wasnt that great 'hey how u doing? u looked kinda bored so i came to join u.'
but then i thought i was doing arite.. we talked for about 15mins and she was laughing and liking wat i was saying. while we were talking she mentions her bf, how he does this and that and i was kool with it and quickly changed the topic.
yet at the end of it all she didnt give me her number!! waaaaaaaat?!?!
wat went wrong?

you need to give more info on what was said and what happind

ok updates... i txtd her what you told me.
it's been 3 days since i talked to her... i wrote 'i'm glued lol'
been 2hrs and nothing. she probably thinks im weird now hahaha.

About the girl from my college. i don't think i built any attraction at the start, only comfort? started off by saying 'hey how are ya?' and didnt really work on my game at all. just went with the flow. not exactly sure what i said lol.
it was all about school and what shes studying etc.

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oooh ok.... i need some help here! lol
she replied 'to what??? Random!' =__=;;
im stuck here i need help fast!! T__T



edit: updates// i wrote... 'lol ur still alive??'
she wrote 'yes.. u too! hehehe'
i wrote 'is that a good thing?:P'

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basically dude what you want to do is build her investment level in you until you can get her on the phone you can usually tell when she is invested enough as her replys will be more consistant and more detailed / thoughtfull

what you want to do just now is mirror her investment levels dont overreach she sends short reply you send short reply maybe asking for just a slight bit more

you want to control the interaction try to end the conversation first with flakey girls this tends to difficult but when you get the chance take it

also mix up how long it takes you to respond her texts dont always instantly reply she's not the most important thing in your life also this works great as she will be like why is he not replying did i say something wrong lol every guy out there has thought this to themselfs at one time or another and it works on girls too so use this tool to your advantage mix it up a little

you goal is build enough invesment to get her to answer your calls and from there you can build a little more comfort and investment

when the investment level is high enough call her up ask her out but sinse she flaked last time make it a group activity not a one on one thing call her up say you and your buds are doing x activity and her and her friends should meet you guys out this way she has the comfort of her friends makes her less likely to flake and secondly if she does flake you lose little value because you were already set to do that actvity in the first place

you have to guage her investment level and adjust you behavior

low invesment : for now you want to be the playfull fun guy that's care free

medium investment : you still want to be the playfull fun guy but tone it down a little show some seriousness

high investment : your still the playfull fun guy but show you can have serious and meaningfull interactions also

also note investment levels are not static they can go up and down

to get this chick your not going to do it over text or phone they are only tools in your toolbox that can allow to set up a date the date is were the workload is your goal is to get her to meet up with you

i called her just today after a few more txting.
she shows signs of interest and started txting me longer replies, asking what im doing etc. so i decided to call her and she did pick up the fone, but i kinda f***d up coz i told her that we should meet up and said 'ill be very disappointed if u don't pick up ur fone again.' it showed that i cared about her not picking up huh?

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yeah you fucked up but atleast you know were you went wrong you know what mistakes you made just keep practicing it takes time to get good at this stuff

this is all part of the learning curve we all make mistakes it's how we learn from them that counts

dont let this girl become your sole focus you need to practice as much as you can on more than one girl you should have a about 5 or 6 girls your gaming at the moment with practice you get experienced and once you get experienced you start to get good and get results

fucking up is just part of the learning process at the beginning you tend to fuck up alot but with time and practice it gets less and less just keep at it