Hi, I am not new here, I already had an account but I forgot what was the username or the mail I used...so I created a new one. :s

There is the story :

I met a girl (we will call her Jessica) one week ago. We had a lot of fun, we danced, talked and drinked. My friend introduced me to her so we were about 4-5 friends hanging out. My friend told me that she had a boyfriend before I met her so I didn't really try to get her. Then she was really flirty with me, always touching me to the chest, arm and face. So anyway we were outside smoking. I am not a smoker so I was talking to people arround me. Then I asked her why she smokes, she said that it was cool ( as a joke ). Then, in a funny way, I told her that she don't need to smoke arround me to be cool. After that, she didn't smoke that night. Then, I made her dance with me on the stage with the dj for the first time of her life. She was shy to go up and I told her that it's always where I go (it's true). Even sober I do it so it's not a problem for me. After I made her go on the stage she really liked it and we had a lot of fun. That night was great and nothing happened between us. After this night, I wasn't thinking that she liked me more than a friend.

But things changed a few days ago. She invited me to meet her at a party on facebook. I was already planning to go on that party with some others friends so I didn't answer because I knew I will see her anyway. I did see her. This time again, we spent all the night together. But this time things were different. We were really touching each other but without doing something about it. She have a boyfriend like I said. After we bumped on each other, some of her friends came and asked her :

Her (girls)friends : It's him Subaru123???

Her : Yeahh!!

Me : You talked about me to your friends?

Her (girls)friends : Yes she told us that you are a party animal, you have to proove it tonight.

Her : I told them that I met a really cool guy last week.

The conversation continued after that but it looked like this at first. My friend who introduced us overheard the conversation. After that he came to me and told me that Jessica asked him if I will be here tonight, he told probably and then she said something like "Cool, I really like him".

Time passed, we went outside for her friends to smoke. What I found funny it's this night, she didn't smoke at all (If you remembered, I told her that she don't need to smoke arround me the week before). We went on the dancefloor, before I told her that we were going to the stage, she told me that we have to go there. I will skip some randoms details that you don't need to know. About 1h after, a girl came to me and introduced her self. She was good looking but not my type. She was trying to flirt but I wasn't interessed. After that (Jessica was there), she told me that I am hard to get. I told her that I am not, but at a party I only pick up really hot girls. Then she asked me what's my type of girl. I knew this was a good IOI. Then I described a girl who looked like her but not too much. She had a smile all the time when I was describing my type of girl. That party was really cool and I was the alpha male of the place. We were about 6 persons on the stage with the dj, I was the only guy. There were plenty of pictures of that on facebook the day after so my social proof is great at this moment.

Anyway, I was looking for the time on cellphone then she told me something about my background...I told her that we can fix that. We started taking pictures with my cellphone. I had to go after that, it was time to #close. I wrote her name on my cellphone, gived her to her and told her to put her number on it. She didn't let me finish my sentence she was already typing her phone. I told her that I will txt her and I will show her how to rock a party like I do. I went home after that. I went on facebook and wrote some lyrics about a song that say that I met a party animal like me. She "liked" it. The day after, my friend told me that she seems to really like me because he saw the way that she was dancing. I am not an AFC, I know girls like to dance and tease man. But still I got so many real IOI that I am really confused.

At first I didn't want to do something about it, but my friend told me that it's not because she have a boyfriend that her relationship is going well and she really seems to like me. What I should do in your opinion? Any help is apreciated.

By the way I speak french, so sorry for my english mistakes.

BRILLIANT!...pay very close attention to how you played this, id say apart from not making a move this was near perfect, you were friendly and high value and if anything youve got her chasing you, this is how you should game EVERY girl.

Now as far as her possibly having a BF, this dosent matter, if your higher value than her BF she will leave him for you...simples.

This is a great natural pickup so far, you should copy this into the field report section, people could learn from what you have done.

As far as i can see there are 2 options.

1. You could look up some boyfriend destroyer routines and run them and escalate sexualy, although i would definatley recomend option 2 above this.

2. Leave things the way they are, keep doing what your doing, all i would say is to escalate more sexually, i.e kino and move for a Kclose.

well done, IMO this is the way to game, be a very confident high value version of yourself, say you aproach every girl like you did this one....think about it, if you dont Fclose her, shes still your friend, shes your pivot...your wing...your social proof.

you gamed her like this because from the start you thought she had a boyfriend so your game changed for her, look how well its gone, if you learn from this and apply it to all future pickups youll have the player lifstyle in no time!

Well done

1 more point, if you dont close this girl you said she introduced you to her 5 female friends, if you get tight with that group...you will be the guy walkng into the club with 6 girls!

I would definatley say you should let things flow, your in a win win situation, you close her and keep her as a friend...WIN, you dont close her and keep her as a friend and youve just got yourself an entourage of 6 girls...WIN

Thank you for your post. I agree with you. I don't want to look needy because I am not. For the boyfriend destroyer, it's not my kind, I tried once and I didn't like the feeling I had. I don't know the guy but still.

I have a simple question about what you said. What do you mean by "Leave things the way they are"? We don't have the same friends, don't go to the same college and we are not on the same town (very close towns, about 5-10min in car).

I thought about sending her a picture we took. What do you think about that? Like I said I don't want to look needy, it's why I need another opinion. If this will decrease my social proof I will not do it. I am just looking for a reason to txt her and make her save my # on her phone.

by saying leave things as they are i mean keep doing the things you have been doing so far, it seems like you havent been putting alot of effort into gaming her, the result....shes putting in alot of effort and the more effort she puts in, the more attracted she will become.

Look at whats happened so far, she invited you to the party (you dident respond-very high value) she told her freinds about you (this is her risking her social value telling her friends about you-more effort shes putting in)

what im saying is, dont change the way you are acting towards her and keep her chasing you, you were saying she was checking if you were going to be at the party, it sounds to me like she wants to spend time with you and you may find she will put more effort in to arrange this, e.g the next party you go to.

Now if she dosent make the effort to see you again you will have to arrange it, i would suggest finding another party you all are going to and invite her along.

when you next see her, like i said, keep treating her the way you have been, the only thing you need to do now is escalate sexualy, start by going for a Kclose.

As for the picture, in theory, yea that would be ok, it will remind her of the fun time she had with you, send it to her on FB tho, i wouldent ask her for her number just so you can send her a pic, what you should be doing is metioning to her that you might be going to a party this weekend...then leave it, give her a chance to invite herself, if she dosent then the next day, say somthing along the lines of, you and your friends are going to the party and she can tag along.

btw i would suggest telling her about the party on facebook, but tbh it dosent really matter, send the pic to her phone and tell her about the party by txt if you want.

Allright, I think it will be better if I txt her the pictures. They are kind of pictures that I don't think a boyfriend would like. They look like a couple pictures (Hand on my chest, arm around her, face on face, big smile).

I will do the party thing. I will escalate but sexualy this time.

I will post in this thread updates on this case.

Thank you.

I txted her this morning, I got no answers. I will see if I get any answer at the end of the day or tomorrow.

you txted her the pictures...what do you expect to hear back.

I didn't send the pictures yet. I just sent a txt and asked her if her cellphone can read pictures messages...I wanted to be sure to not send it and she don't receive anything. :/ Bad idea?

thats ok, dont text again, if she dosent respond it dosent matter, remember, shes chasing you, if she dosent respond for a week thats ok.

continue gaming other girls, if she responds, metion the party, if you dont get a responce dont worry about it. if you do see her again just escalate sexually.

Ok I will do that, I hope it's not the wrong number she gave me.

Also, a girl invited me to a party on facebook (on my wall). This may help making her chasing me even more.

I will keep this thread alive until the end of the story. If anyone have any suggestion or comments you are welcome.

Weird thing happened. She asked me for my number today on facebook, then I told her that she had to save my number when I sent her a txt and she told me she didn't get anything...I think she is not telling the truth but whatever. I told her about the party and she told me to txt her if I go ( because I may not go ).

Also.I am not sure at all if I should game her while she have a boyfriend. I will see if she response well when I will kino her more sexualy. If not, she will stay a good friend to hang out with.