ok so i met this girl last saturday at a club, hb7. we danced for a bit, very close, and then led her off the floor to a quieter location in the club where i gamed her for some time, total time being close to 45 mins.

she was into me, clearly more than i was into her. strangely, when i went for the number close at this point, she refused! i figured i mis-calibrated. anyways, she asked me to give her my number - so i said i know what that means, dont worry about it, it was nice meeting you, and was about to leave.

she then stops me, and pleads for like 5 mins to give her my number, asking why i wont, almost upset/sad that i would not. i figured this was a lost case and eventually i just decided to give the number anyways spent some more time with her, and didn't even think about her after that.

on wednesday, she sends me a text, i answered in an hour and she followed by "when is a good time to call you". bit surprised, but said i'll call her the following day.

i call her thursday and she picks up, mentioning she is with family and will call back later. she calls back in 2hrs and is super chatty. after about ~30 mins, i kind of cut the convo short and just let her go. at this time i also set up a meet on sunday, which she seemed excited about.

this is going to be the first meetup after the club, where we spent a total of about 1hr, and 30 mins on the phone.

ok here is where i need your advice guys: after meeting up, if i suggest a bounce to my place, is that pushing for too much on the first meet?
also, i feel that she is the type that will get attached easily. i am not looking for a relationship at this point. at what point during the interaction should i bring this up with her?
one more question, was she expecting an SNL and was that why she refused to give her number in the first place? she was with a friend so i had ruled out SNL, maybe that was a major mistake on my part.

dont suggest the bounce to her just lead her there and keep her mind occupied to avoid the a state break if it you do end up with a state break tell her your stopping at you place for a few mins to get something or whatever

and second if she seems like the type to get attached then dont do it move on to another chick because even if you do bring it up and she agees shes going to get attached anyway its her nature

3rd ? SNL or not no idea would have had to have been there

thank you for the advice mrmonk. keeping her mind occupied to avoid state break is golden. i now recall i i read something similar in MM, but never did really connect it to my current situation, appreciate the help.

is it more common for ONS to not go for the n-close initially? i am coming off a LTR and am very new to this, but i do see improvement - thanks to the great group of people in this board!

i wouldnt say so i only go for a N close when im leaving the venue i dont try and Nclose every girl as i couldnt be fucked texting them all only the girl am gaming at the time i decide im leaving gets my number and if there was one particular girl that stood out from ealier she can have it too

i have in the past N-closed first and still got the SNL so i dont see why not me personally though if i had SNL in mind i wouldnt N-close first no need to

thanks you for the input mrmonk.

back from the meet-up: the girl is genuinely nice. she also has a son. i simply did not try to bounce her - i think she is looking for something serious and i don't want to give her false hope, as that is not what i am looking for...