If I think she is drunk enough that it would be unethical for me to make a move on her, i.e. not stumbling, but not walking in a straight line either, would it still be wrong if she initiates?

My reasoning is this: if she's going for it, she probably has thought about it before, and although she might not initiate if she were sober, she would probably be receptive. (I've known her for a while) On the other hand, I tend to try to err on the conservative side. It's one thing to manipulate a girl into a receptive state, but another to take advantage of her if she's drunk...

In the Marine Corps, we're taught all girls that are intoxicated are off limits since they're incapable of giving permission. But we're also taught that when you choose to drink you're taking full responsibility for your actions while intoxicated.

So I'm always torn. I tend to go with tipsy is okay, drunk is not.

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i would game her and look for clusters of ioi, if she is your friend i would k close her at the most then finish her off in the morning lol (when she can make a rational decision) but if she confesses to really genuinely liking you its all systems go

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If they are just slightly tipsy, they know what there doing and i dont see theres too much moral issues in it, a little bit of alcohol dosent suddenly make you retarded, a girl wouldent have a drink then walk out in front of a bus, she also wouldent bang some AFC or hobbo so IMO she knows what shes doing.

There i was talking about them having a few drinks and as far as when there really drunk, well....When they are stumbling, cant stand and are throwing up...that aint that attractive to me.

i would say yes, but only if you keep in good contact with her and legitly hang out with her again, SOBER, maybe during the day, so she doenst feel you are a regret, cause that can fuck you over. and he if she likes you at a coffee shop and you fucked once, she is way likely to go for it again

mR.e

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dont even think just do it!

well, just know that if a girls durnk, she can claim sexual assault and rape...and probably win....so....its your future...

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Yeah this pisses me off, for some reason girls get drunk and forget. I was fucking this girl the other night and she'd completely forgot we had sex half an hour after, I was thinking "wtf, gtfo"... but of course I just went to sleep, disgusted.

yes that is very true, thats why its smart to be really nice after about it if you take the risk of fuckin a drunk girl, thats the point of a sober day date you could call it to make her feel comfortable


mR.e

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dont even think just do it!

More and more girls are loosing these type of cases in court.

that is possible to be true, but who cares about speicifics, you are taking a risk. if you feel like it was a bad one after, you better damn well know how to be a good guy to a girl to save yourself, it doesnt take much to show you are human and nice rather then a sexually over hormoned male, if you can show this even if a girl is pissed or depressed you can really change how she feels about it and even become friends

mR.e

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dont even think just do it!

I've ticked yes on this one, as a girl. Sometimes girls purposefully get themselves drunker than normal so they feel less nervous when hooking up with someone.

Of course it does depend on the situation. It's harder to tell at a bar. However for example, one time there was a party at my house, and my SPAM was trying to hook up with a girl. Said girl got herself really drunk and lay on his bed saying, "I'm so drunk" and he got her a taxi home. I mean really, could she have been more obvious that she wanted to sleep with him?

Personally, I would never get myself into a situation where I was sleeping with a guy, regardless of whether how drunk I was unless had some interest in him. Even if it was some random at a bar.

personally i dont find drunk girls attractive at all. i also cannot stand talking to people who are drunk. so personally i cant see myself getting into this situation.

however even it was offered to me on a plate while the girl was drunk. and i percieve drunk as not being mildly intoxicated. i would deffinatly say they would not be making a rational decision and would consider that a very very sleezy thing to do

drunk girls for me are the same as using prostitutes. whats the point. half the reason i like sex is that the girl wants to be there. be with you. i love the chase, love the flirting, love the feeling that someone wants me. even if that is just for 1 night.

Love Hank

Couldn't have said it better myself. If you spend the time developing yourself to be able to attract women, why would you settle for sleazy drunk bitches?

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I think what you have to define in this topic is exactly how drunk we are talking- even though the poll title says it, its a bit vague.
For instance i know girls that lean on me after 2 beers and i know others that if they were to lean on somebody they would have to be paraletic.
Personaly i would judge this on the likely hood the girl will remember the morning. If she has enough wit about her to remmeber then go for it. If in your judgment she is too drunk then dont do it man.

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