I am so pissed ...its not fair at all. Im the one who actually researches and learns about all this pua shit and Im the one who approaches girls while my friend just chills and gets the hot girls when the time comes.

He is dating this hb8 and he didnt even approach her, just friend of friend interaction and they met. SO many girls like this guy...my only guess is that its because of his looks + confidence. The guy is too dam confident, were in highschool and no one can talk shit to him, people respect him no one plays jokes on him. He brags infront of girls about his body (like today he was showing pictures of his body to some of the guys.... homo...but he was being loud and the girls must have heard).

Anyways he even tells me so many times that hes choppin girls and i believe it. Some girls follow him to his school locker, he chats, hes such a good conversation person.

HE tells me bout this baby shower thing he went to and there were girls behind his table (he was sitting with his family ) and they were saying to each other " you talk to him...no you tlak to him" This has to prove that hes hot or that hes bullshittin.

fuck if I had the looks i would tear it up. he has to be a natural...

Today i asked him for advice im like give me some tips. he said yea you just have to talk to the girls like friends. your not suppose to try n chop them too hard. Have normal conversations with them..

I mean its better then telling me that "Im just too hot thats y girls like me"
but common, talk to girls as friends? i thought the point of Pickup is to be straight forward.



I hate this guy now.... even when i was dating my ex i bet she liked him too cause all of my ex's friends like him.

do looks really matter?
or is it just because hes super confident..

i think he meant be your real self, i mean think about it, when are you your true genuine self? IN FRONT OF YOUR FRIENDS! not that you should be your plain lame self, but be your interesting self.

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que sara sare, LET THAT SHIT RIDE

This. It's because he's alpha and you're not. You are obviously trying to pick up girls, but you're telling yourself subconsiously that this guy who's a natural is better than you. That's not being alpha at all. Take his advice, look at his swagger, and apply that to your own self. Don't become him, since he sounds like a bit of a douchebag. But become a more confident version of yourself. Be more attractive and you'll stop feeling "inferior" to this other guy. Trust me.

whats wrong with talking to a girl like one of the guys? or your bratty sister?

don't talk to girls like LJBF friendzone beta shit

but as if they're your bratty younger sister, who you're a little mean to, joke around with, but can take care of and look out for if need be.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

ive had so many friends like this guy,verry natural with all the ladys.supper confadent and attractive.but now im to the point where i just dont care about them

be your better self all the time.try to ber that alpha male.

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~remember were not just picking up girls.were building a better life.~mystery.

Look at his body language and how he carries himself. It's most likely very good. Model yourself on that.

Has anyone thought, which to me shows lack of Alpha too, that maybe the girls he is picking up are retards? Hot girls is NOT the point...if all you want is a hot girl, sorry about your life....a girl that is beautiful AND has the coolness of personality that you want...etc...that is what we should be going after.....A LOT of times, hot chics lack personality....it COULD be that most of the girls he attracts are just like him....

Worry about yourself and the type of girl YOU want and be the guy that she is attracted to....

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"I forgive you...."

imo the best advice, if it was raining i'd shed a tear for sure

sounds like the type of girls he wants are the one's that are attracted to his friend, or he wouldn't be jealous

still good advice

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que sara sare, LET THAT SHIT RIDE

well said my friend well said.i my self have been in that exact same situation where i look at a girl and just based off looks decide weather or not to approach.horrable mistake

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~remember were not just picking up girls.were building a better life.~mystery.

This doesn't make sense. How can you base your decision to approach on anything other then looks? You don't know a girls personality before you've spoken to her.

when u see a girl.u learn after time to not look at her beauty but everything else.how she stands,what shes drinking ect..but good fight

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~remember were not just picking up girls.were building a better life.~mystery.

I hate the term "alpha". Being alpha to me means striving to be a douchebag to those around you for attention. Your friend is the definition of what it means to be a natural in the game. It's about the confidence and how he carries himself, not about routines and games. Good on him for understanding without having to go through the trouble of what we all do/did.

this is what makes him "alpha," dosen't sound like a douche bag to me

i think the word alpha should be replaced w/ confident, or comfortable being yourself

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que sara sare, LET THAT SHIT RIDE

You approach girls based on what they're drinking? How they stand? Instead of standing there analyzing every aspect of her, you should be approaching.

Is she attractive? Yes... then approach.