So I'm a high school student (sophomore) who doesn't really do any sports other then going to the weight room to lift a few times a week. I'm not popular enough to be chillin with the groups that get the HB9's and 10's because I lack athletic skills completely. Im just a middle of the road guy who has a few friends from different cliques. I'd say my looks are kind of above average though. What could I do to get the 9s and 10s besides joining a sports team to impress?

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Nothing in pick up applies to all women. There's no such thing as rejection... they're just playing hard to get.

From what I read, in high school all you need is to be social and fun. In HS I was kind of a "class clown" but I've always been kind of a skinny nerdy type (I'm a video games/computer guy). In retrospect, during my own Sophomore year, this one girl was giving me some serious IOIs but I didn't pursue it (at all) because I had that whole "class/clique/popularity" mentality and I didn't think she's be into a smart guy, only into a football/baseball player. I could have 100% had sex with her (I found out later). Recently, she was in a Hooters calendar. Durr.

The moral of the story: be fun, interesting, social, and alpha. Don't be aggressive, be alpha. Be a badass and be yourself. You CAN score the HB9s and 10s, it's all in your head.

Dude I'm in the exact same situation with this HB9. She gives me extreme IOIs but I never do anything because she chills with a completely different group then me. Like I would persue but I have no friends in common with her so I don't see it ever being possible.. any advice?

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Nothing in pick up applies to all women. There's no such thing as rejection... they're just playing hard to get.

Stop making excuses!

I would but....it wont work because...i dont see it ever being possible.

Stop making all these excuses and go talk to the girl, get a chance and open her, you dont need to be in a sports team and have the girls brought to you, you just gotta have the balls to walk straight up and start a conversation.

here are a few things iv noticed about high school game (teenage girls):

1) to be a guy every one knows, dont associate yourself in any one group at school. get around, meet everyone in different classes, guys and girls, just become more known in general. be funny, but not over the top with it, just a chill funny guy who is easy to get along with. that, is for the general population of people that you see daily.

2) when you start too find that more people know who you are, and talk to you, and relate to you (if you relate to them so that needs to be done a little) your rep starts to be built. this rep is important for high school gaming, extremely important. outside high school, this almost doesn't apply at all, the real world is a whole different story but to stay good at high school game and to have people know you, keep a good rep, dont ruin it.

3) hooking up with girls at your high school is TRICKY. first of all, people will know, everyone will know at some point. no matter who it is, people will know. so keep that in mind that this well be reflected in your rep. now, it isnt bad to hook up with people, and you can but here is how you keep a solid rep:

-when you hook up with a girl, talk to her after, dont ignore her at school. if she doesnt want a relationship there is no need to not stay in touch. add her to your friends list, and try and avoid talking about the hook up in general, if it comes up though state your intentions. that you are casual with people, and that you guys can still be great friends but its not a dating type of hook up. this will keep her having a positive mind about you, meaning her friends will, meaning a certain group she is in will keep this positive mind about you as well.

-when you have a girl who doesnt like you JUST cause you hooked up with another girl, you need to change her mind. the best way i found is simple ask them to lunch, 1 on 1 talking. this is for the type of girls that seem to tease you for hooking up with girls, and they are almost jealous about it. when you talk to her, bring up why she likes to mess with you about hook ups. tell her that you are casual, and you are picky about dating so you dont date just anybody. this shows you have standards and high value. then, say that high school is meant to be casual, it is a time in your life with less responsibility and what ever happens, happens, and thats why when i have a great moment with some one and we hook up its good for both of us, i like to leave girls better off then when they met me, and if they dont wanna hook up they are free to walk away. that last sentence is key, use most of it, and add in your own parts, but this shows you you are not just screwing girls over, but just enjoying high school and that you do care about people

4) try to avoid hooking up with people in the same social groups. if you hook up with a girl, and her best friend, it will be damn hard to recover from that. no matter what you say, the fact you hooked up with both will make your rep go down a whole lot, so just avoid that in general, and if there is a time you really want to do it during a break, like summer break or even Christmas break, but its still hard to do, and should be avoided if you wanna keep a good rep.

5) when and if you get a girlfriend, BE FAITHFUL. and honestly be loyal to her. this will make your value higher, and many girls will be happy that you are happy with a girl. they will want to be with you, and girls will like you more but if you show more restraint you will look better for everyone, and you will actually have a good relationship in the long run. until then follow what i have set down for you and just be aware of the little things i have mentioned




i made this a thread because i have noticed the number of high school aged people on this forum, as well as many of them asking me for advice and i have put all my advice into one thread. iv tried to cover the basics of high school game, i dont think im missing anything crucial. if you want to add anything if you were in high school, or are currently, feel free to add it here i want opinions back from people. any more questions regarding high school game im free to ask, and if i dont get back right away dont worry i will cover them all

mR.e

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dont even think just do it!

Do what I did

get a motorcycle
take a dance class
don't give a fuck

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