Last night I was stood up by a girl that was supposed to come over and have a few drinks with me. She said she was having a bad day and just wanted to meet up at my place. When we talked before I said she could call but she invited herself over to my place so....who am I to object?

So, time goes by. She was picking up some bud from a friend and coming over. She texts me and let me know she has the bud, and another hour goes by and I get another message saying, "Whatcha doing?".....Waiting for you. It was late at night (3am) so I cant really think of a hotshit excuse and thats really what I was doing that late at night but after that no more messages the rest of the night. she was adamant about coming over but...maybe forgot?

I've seen this girl a few times she's come over. It was really chill but the last time we left we made out pretty heavy for awhile. Im trying to think of how to approach this again. I wouldnt be nearly as pissed but it was really late and I was expecting her for hours. I didnt wanna text her and check up on her, I just had the "if she comes, she comes" attitude towards it. Maybe tomorrow I'll hear a bunch of sorry shit and maybe nothing. But should I freeze this girl out a bit? Im still kinda sleep deprived and I could make her really never want to talk to me again if I wanted to but im just looking for the most mature way to handle this little dilemma.

I'm not surprised your pissed, you could have done far more with your time, id definitely not let her know it bothered me that's for sure as in a weird way that's probably what she wants. maybe freeze her out for a few days, if she's that bothered about you in she'll get in touch, if not then she's obviously not worth your time- I'm in a similar predicament mate

If she try's to invite herself over again id point blank refuse and say I'm already busy, and then make her meet you on your terms.

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They Misunderestimated Me...

Today she started texting me like crazy (like 4 messages within an hour of me not responding) till I finally responded. She said she wanted to hook up today and my place and that she'd bring a friend. I first thought maybe she'd just want her friends to meet me because she liked me but after some time studying PUA tactics, I quickly told her that I would be busy all day and to reschedule.

She never mentioned standing me up either so after I told her I was busy I asked what happened last night and she told me that she was so sorry and she passed out. I never responded and ended the conversation there.

Being a recovering AFC, I think I did very well for myself. Regained the power and elicited value but this is still new territory for me, because not even a year ago I'd be drooling over her and jumping at any chance I could to meet her. Am I on the right track with this one? I was thinking of bringing her over here tomorrow and finally having sex with her which is why I want her alone. Im still thinking of how I should go about it, be blunt or continue being playful?

I think I can really push the envelope and test her attraction towards me, like I said she has been texting me alot recently, and I know saying no burned her because she started getting used to coming over to my house. Any more help is appreciated. Im trying to see this all the way through.