I seem to have a mental block when it comes to approaching women. I never try, and not really had anything serious since coming out of a relationship last year.

I do notice some women given me the eye, but i just have this mentality of 'i think i want something better'.

But when something better comes along i dont try at all to approach, or start a conversation.

Can someone give me some motivation to approach, instead of me leaving it to fate. I just keep thinking "oh well, there is always the next girl.

thanks

I'm pretty inconsistent as well when it comes to approaching girls. Sometimes I do it with ease and it ends up going really well. Other times I delay it, and by that time it's too late.

I've noticed though that the sooner I approach a girl after our eyes have met, the easier it is and the better it goes. If I delay it and it's been like 5 minutes + since our eyes first met, or if we keep looking at each other and FINALLY I go talk to her, then the results aren't very good. The girls can notice if you're struggling to work up the courage just by the delay in your approach.

I'm starting to just ACT right away now. At the bar I'm beginning to automatically approach a girl almost immediately (unless of course it's obvious she's in an important convo, etc.). When I go to a store or coffee shop, if a girl working greets me or asks what I want (simply doing her job), I attempt to make more of a conversation, such as asking how her shift is going, or asking what her favorite drink is. It helps so much and I'm getting more confident

your motivation is to get laid instead of spending the rest of your life without women. if the problem is you dont try then you know what you need to do. next time you see a girl and think you can do better game her anyway as a confidence boost.