Okay i started to talk to her on facebook , then i number closed her , then started texting , so then we arranged a meet up

Just before we met up , her ex was with her, so i waited for him to go (which was an hour! )
so while i was waiting i text her saying im going in 10 mins
she promptly text back saying she is free now

so we hung out at the mall , its our prom soon and she said that i should be a pimp and she should be my whore , so i bought a pimp cane

she was also buying shoes and she didnt have enough money , so i lent her some money which she is going to pay back

during this time she was always laughing, touching me and making conversation

I am the one of the first lads from her school she has met, as she is friends with other people outside school

so what you think,do u think i have a chance??

her toughing you and you getting her number first off is an IOI so you should definetly have a good chance, chill with her again and escalate and when you go to prom try building rapport and then show her youre the most interesting person in youre school then push for a kiss close or you might even depending on how things are going push for a lay. good luck brah and keep ya pimp hand strong

hey thanks man what do u mean by "her toughing me"
plus this is hard for me to say but im nearly 16 but i have never kissed anyone or had a girlfriend

this doesnt mean i am weird - since ia m one of the most popular guys in the school and all girls like me
im a bit chubby

Waiting for the ex to leave? It's either you or him, don't just wait for her like a little pet. She either comes to meet up with you or she doesn't. You should watch out for that ex thing because you never know when she might 'miss' him.

hey bro,,,

1. i wouldnt wait for that chick ,,,if she is with her ex then there is somethin more to the story

2. dont buy her anything man,,,and if u lent her some cash that can be dangerous also..

3. all girls are crazy but young girls are evn more crazy and imature,,,she could just be playin with u,,,

...i would be more assertive and push more for physical interactions like touching and stuff, but do it smooth,,,

hey guys we were like touching and stuff all the time - we even linked arms like french style for a bit
and i guess u can never take the nice guy out of me - so these shoes were from the prom so i lent her £10 but she will pay me back tomorow

and i would have but im fairly new to the game so i didnt know what to do in that situation with the ex - so i just respected her boundaries if u know what i mean

So you two are going to prom together right? Clarify that and then I can throw some insight your way

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haha i know what u mean bud - well i havent officially aasked her to be my date to the prom and to come with me but when we met up she was like u be a pimp and ill be ur hoe and thats how we are entering prom so shud i ask her??
bearing in mind i have only met her once or twice

O boy it gets risky now. Better close the deal on that prom thing because before you know she's off with her ex and you'll be dancing alone at prom. Atleast get a backup.

well she text me saying that it might be awkward
and i will close the prom thing m8

what happens if she discusses another girl who has a crush on me?

Whatever you do don't say you like the HB instead. Could just go with 'well she's nice and all blabla' but try to change subject when you can. The most typical answer (she's probably looking for) would be: 'I don't like her I like you alot more', something in that kinda way, you get the deal.

doesnt that mean im jumping through her hoops?
and remeber she is hottt

Well if she mentions other girls she wants to know whats going on between you or it's a shittest and if you give any information about liking the HB she hears what she wants to hear and you don't wanna give her that. Remember, you're the prize, not her.

so what? u want me to say i dont like the person who has the crush on me?
and i dont by the way

im 16 and have been through this many a times.theres only a set number of ways this can go =\

either A:she likes u and wants to have a relationship but is scared.

B:she still likes her ex and might just be wantning attention.

or in worst case senerio C:shes a bitch and is playing u.

u must remember that all girls like to try and be in control its just the way they work,but they also love to have a man to guide them so dont be afraid to tell her wwhat u guys are going to do,make planns for her and close on this prom deal ASAP.any more questions pm me or i dono if i can put my cell on here to txt me but ill probly do it anyways.

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