Two nights ago, I had a girl over my place and I took her upstairs where we could talk for a bit. We werent doing anything at that point when my cousin comes home and comes upstairs with us for a while. Now, my cousin is a natural at pickign up women and I think he actually does it unconsciously and he's given me alot of advice in the past. But anyway, so its Me, him, and her and with his outgoing experienced ways, he basically steals the show. I felt like shit that I cant even be safe from this in my own home but he's a few years older and naturally better.

So anyway, she leaves and I kiss her good night to bring her back to reality with me, walk her to her car and everythings fine....or so I thought. The next night, the same girl calls up and asks, BEFORE EVEN ASKING ME, "Does your cousin drive?" She wanted us to come to her house and drink with her.

Now im not very experienced, im 19, and my cousin is 25. Given what happened during that night and the invite I got earlier today, I honestly do feel that my cousin swept this girl from me without even trying. It's hard not to feel bitter about it, and im ready to just tell this girl to fuck off and try again with another girl but I feel like total shit. I couldnt really take her to a different place in the house because my parents were downstairs and it was her first time coming over.

So im just asking, what should I do in this situation? It's hard for me not to feel really shitty about this whole thing. I've been practicing alot and got this girl to come over and if he didnt come upstairs with us it could have led to more. But, I just feel betrayed by them both. If anyone can give me any advice I'd appreciate this.

And I know a favorite response to alot of these posts is, "Go find another girl!" I've just heard it so many times, if anyone can add anything different I'd appreciate it. Thanks.

Talk to your cousin. It sounds like you two are on pretty good terms otherwise (you live together, he's given you advice before), so I think he would be pretty understanding if you just said "Hey man, can you help wing me with this girl." Is she having a small party? Or is it just you two and her that will be drinking? If it's a few more people, bring your cousin and make sure he disqualifies himself from her right away (like a good wing should), and talks you up a bit. From there on out, it should be smooth sailing.

yeah, mention it to him lol

not like you need to fight about.

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This situation had a good ending after all. This girl broke up with her boyfriend today on Facebook and me and my cousin came in and lightened the situation up for her and cracked a few jokes. I was talking with her after that and invited her to come over tomorrow and now it's escalated into her spending the night over here, and it's only her second time over here.

I never realized it but together me and my cousin compliment each other really well when it comes to gaming and sealed the deal in no time. I know she's into me and now she'll be over for the night tomorrow, and out of courtesy he's going to go out for a while while me and her hang out. Things turned out good after all and she'll be coming over here ready and willing after a break up with a shitty boyfriend. (He defines AFC, star on high school football team but cant keep a girl more than two weeks)

Possibly my next post will be a lay report? Alone watching a movie in an empty house after all this could yield some good results.