Ok here is my basic oppinion on nlp. I would love to hear any opposing or coenciding responces on this topic. i think nlp is wrong to an extent it feels very unnatural like youre doing something you really shouldent, i beleve that you should do to other people what you would like to have them to do to you and i really dont want my mind controlled, just a thought.

you're talking about the SS side of NLP.

NLP in itself is great, but most of us on this forum agree that the extent that SS uses NLP is nearing the side of immoral.

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Maybe go take a look at the NLP Wikipedia page or something... before you pass judgement on a style of therapy.

This post is akin to getting pepper sprayed, and then stating "I don't like peppers, they suck"

i think 1 could argue that any seduction technique is munipulative, the reason being youre using technique to purely to get laid!

neil strauss said it right in article in eye weekly:
The article cites a proposal put forward by a feministblogs.org writer as an alternative to the formula used by expert PUAs: "Shake my hand. [Say] 'Hi, my name is…' Treat me like a human being. Avoid seeing women as conquests and men as competition." In reference to the proposal, Strauss retorted that "If that worked, I wouldn't have had to write this book."..

the point im making is if nlp or ss is munipulative then so is most of the others.. and the comment im about to make will be unliked. i have no problem using ss or nlp or any other technique as long as it gets me the result i want

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