Hej guys
A bit more than a month ago my gf cheated on me and we broke up. It was mostly my bad because I turned into an AFC again, by caring to much about her ect. She's in a relationship with the guy she cheated with for about a week now. Since we broke up, I went clubbing alot and f-closed 5 girls. I dont want te get back with her and she told my friend that she was really sorry how it ended ect.
This week there is a partyweek at my college so im going to run into her anyways, whats the best way to act when i see her again?
Advice would be really apreciated!
Thanks in advance,
LA2499

Ignore her.
Wrong section btw.

If she cheated on you and you have fucked 5 girls in the month since you have broken up then why are you even thinking about her? Are you trying to get her back or something?

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I dont want to get back with her, even if I wanted too I wouldnt do it, just because of my own selfrespect and if a girl cheats ones she will do it again.
I also dont really now why i think about her, its mostlikely just a natural reaction of losing someone while i really liked her. And it really cranked my ego, since i used to be the guy that cheated in relationships(not proud of it) and then when i dont cheat in a relationship it gets done to me(karma is a b*tch)..
update: yesterday i was studying for an exam so i didn't go out, but my ex went up to a friend of mine and asked where i was, that she hadn't heard from me for over a month, since i dont return her texts. So the talk is going to happen one way or another. would it be smartest to tell her/act when i see her?

Be nice and totally unaffected...it HAS to look and sound real. Be the way you usually are. Of course no affection/compliments....do not bring up the past. If she does bring it up say its the past and youre OK with it. If she takes too long talking trying to extract emotion from you or make you jealous...say you are late for something and take off politely.

By not loosing your cool and being unaffected/numb you will totally seem in control and ok without her.

Do not let emotions creep out/get mad/name-call/get jealous/or let anything she says affect you...be cool. She will think she made a huge mistake if you can follow these rules.

i broke up with my ex in feburary she cheated also so i get how you feel buddy i f-closed 6 chicks sinse that and i still have feelings for her i dont know why

im over her and would never get back together with her but yeah i still do have alot of feelings for her

we lived together and even after she moved out the place reminded me so much of her eventually i had to move out also we had a really bad break up so if we see each other we dont acknowledge each other or anything either she leaves the venue or i do

so i get what your going through bud and i understand im going through this also and my advice would be to avoid her just stay away from the chick because itl only end up with a whole lot of hurt on your part if you end up in the same venue as her you will try make her feel jelous you may even ended fighting with her new BF i did that no fault of my own the guys a prick anyway back to the point you deserve better dude once a cheat always a cheat this chicks trash she dosent deserve to be part of your life so dont let her be