You are hopeless, and acting like a complete bitch. STOP FUCKING TALKING TO HER DUDE!!!! Jesus, how fucking difficult is that? Delete her number, stop responding to her shit, and stop being used as her tampon. God damn, fucking lowest form of man on the planet.

Okay. Now I think your just mesing with us. This has to be a joke. If not...leave this forum. There is no hope for you. Every reply says the same thing: Get over her. Stop calling her. Stop texting her. Erase her from your life. No friendship. No asking about her to her friends. Just stop it...I still think your yanking our cranks. Theres no way you could be this AFC.

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where is your pride dude. Common sense should have told you that it was a bad move. The more you make yourself look needy and like a wussy, the more she will find you unattractive and be turned off. It's pretty easy to understand. Hope you go out and meet some other women so you can get over this problem in life and never encounter it again.

hahahaha

i seriously pulled that shit. no jokes.
omg, it was a bad move

Well I cant change it now.

so uhm. i deleted her number. Im moving on.

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Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

good move, i'm going through exactly the same thing, hence now being on this forum and entering the game for the first time. I'm determined to be happier than my ex ever made me, you just gotta have the positive outlook. Seriously you are better than this girl, she doesnt deserve you and is clearly over you. It's not worth your time and effort.

Every time you start thinking about her just remember, she isn't thinking about you so why give her the satisfaction of knowing you're thinking of her. Even if you dont tell her she's going to be thinking your still dreaming of her, best way mate...move on n forget the bitch.

Don't giver her the satisfaction, remember don't chase her, replace her. Did good removing her number, please, is she calls, give her the cold shoulder, don't be a mug.

Move on man!!!!

Lets try a scenerio lets say she drops him then comes back to you,

The jealousy is going to eat at you that she did it would lead to you mistrusting her anyways and it will show!

MORE IMPORTANTLY: WHAT IF SHE DOES IT AGAIN???? are you gonna go through this again, this whole thing of trying to get her back!

LAST THING TO THINK ABOUT: IF SHE LOVED OR CARD ABOUT YOU SHE WOULDNT HAVE STRAYED AWAY IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!

DO YOU WANT HER BACK OR DO YOU NOT WANT TO BE ON YOUR OWN????

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I've had 15 months of it from a 9year LTR/ 2 days silience.

I don't know about you but at 38 yrs old I'm not sitting about to long.

I'm out tonight and making approaches.

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I'm 21, and love your attitude. Good luck!

Sorry mate, but I couldn't read it all (too long). But move on and get over her. It will take some time but you will feel much better then. It's a true story. I broke up with my ex after 6,5 years when she cheated on me (I totally loved her, but couldn't get over). And it was a random guy she met that night, she got drunk... A couple of weeks after we broke up, she and one of my ex best friends started dating each other. It was hard, but I tried to move on. Lived in another country for one year and it was the best feeling ever when I realised that I'm over. I slept with her when I got back after that year. The best sex ever, without any emotional hangover. Time will heal everything

Lol, so you went back and slept with her? Haha, dude it is obvious you still have feelings for her. That random dude ran through that pussy, your best friend ran through that pussy, and you come back and sleep with her? Way to give back ALL THE POWER you are claiming you got back by leaving for a year.

DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS GUY!!! He is just a chump who moved away for a little while and came back and fell into the SAME trap.

False No feelings, nothing. Crazy monkey sex when we got a bit drunk.

She was the one with feelings because they broke up after a couple of months and wanted me back. I totally ignored her. Sleeping with her was a kind of my revenge. I wanted to win the break up. And I did...

I'm not advising to sleep with her. I'm telling that time will heal everything...

Damn it's a too long thread, I didn't read everything. I would say as everybody said. Respect yourself acquire experience from this life, work on yourself and frequent respectable people! It seems stupid but it's gonna have a good influence on you.


There's studies suggesting that an ex lovers (man or women) who dump their half are feeling a strong urge to come back at their old flames after about 2 years. I think it's true.

What I did is I stop to talk to my ex who dump me, letting know to my common friends it was in my own interest not to hurt myself. Of course, it came to her ears. After years I received a letter telling me that she thought about what she did to me and regrets a lot how bad she was. She included in the letter that if I didn't want to talk to her again she would understand... I resisted and never responded. Maybe 2 years passed since the letter and I recently heard from a friend that she'd like to be friend with me (she's manipulating someone else now). I answer to the guy that destiny does things not human lost. If I cross her someday, I'd listen to what she have to say and I would answer very kindly. There's no need to be friend, especially if someone is dumping you but forgiveness is inevitable IMHO. Perhaps, you can't forgive people who don't realize the consequences of their deeds.

Actually, I firmly believe you can have sex with all your ex gf and ex friends! (I already had straight verbal offer of an old friend while having conversation with her in the coffee shop) When it's happening you got to move right away though.

Just having autonomy (almost independency but not) is almost enough to change all your relationships.

I guess I said my every thought. I've to go, if I forgot something I'll be back.

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welcome to the real world, mate.

i bet you're thinking 'but she loved ME, how can she cheat on ME when she loved ME. the only two people who really love you, is your mother and YOU.

your girlfriend doesn't love you, she loves the sexual attraction. sure, when she has that sexual attraction for you she'll be all over you, give you great sex, let you watch the football with your mates, but as soon as that sexual attraction is gone, she gets bored and some other bloke is getting f'cked that night.

don't worry, it's a two way thing, if she piled on 200 pounds and sat at home all day eating doritos, you'd lose the sexual attraction towards her and want to go f'ck someone else.

i dont mean to be rude but shes probably riding some guy right now with no regard for you she aint thinking about you... so dont mope about it because a youll keep doing it and itll make you worse and worse and youll just crash and burn believe me ive been there and its not easy to get over but you have to!

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