Hi,
Sorry if this post seems long but here is my situation.

Am 21, going to parties and clubs were never my thing! Always wanted a GF but never really thought of it as a must have. I've had this huge crush on this girl for like forever, and never had the confidence and courage to speak to her since am usually shy (reason for not much experience with girls), and she is one of the hottest girls in our area. I thought my luck was in when two weeks ago she came to my job to do her internship. However, I wish I had known about this forum and how to game hot girls before that happen. I did almost everything I shouldn't have done including telling her i had a crush on her the first day; the worst part is I acted WAY too nice and even as a tool at some point. I might have killed any chance of she seeing me as a sexual person, even though I flirted with her (did this quite a few times and never really paid much attention to it.).

We exchanged numbers and text each other sometimes but from the looks of it, nothing major will happen anytime soon. At one point even got a text from her saying, "Ur too nice and sweet". That's when i realized that I screwed up everything and started looking for solutions and found this forum.

Now, I am moving on since i realized it was my fault, and learned a lot from here. I have this other girl on my radar. She about my age and extremely gorgeous, and is working at a bank so i know she is smart and has high standards and social status.

Here is the where i need help! Am a computer technician and website designer, not geeky but smart, 5'11", slim guy. I work at a small computer place that offers internet and other services. The dilemma is that my new target has been at my work like 3 times before and sit right across from me to use the internet. I've even helped her get connected to the net. Likewise, the place am staying is exactly in the middle of my work and hers so, we walk pass each other every single day during lunch break and sometimes in the evenings going home. We usually just say "hi or hey or good afternoon or something", when we pass each other, nothing funny or cool.

Now am starting to have a crush on her. I would like know how I could approach her and maybe get her number; since I only see her when we pass each other. Also because I've seen her so often and never had a conversation with her. Just making a random boring one might come off as a little creepy and if failed would have to settle for less attractive ones.

I've been reading this forum everyday since I found it. Am still kinda shy around girls but am working to get better at it. The problem is we, live on a small peninsula village, there aren't that many girls to choose from so I don't want to screw this one up like I did with the last one. Am confident enough to know that I can pull this off with some help.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Ok first off, I dont think starting a conversation with her would be creepy. You pass her everyday so she already sees you as a familiar face, so all you would have to do is open and play the game man. I personally like the stealth stuff...but use what you like. Let me know if you have any other questions. Good luck...i would do it asap tho.

I would suggest a newbie mission. Before you go start talking to her and you don't want to mess it up, go to a different city and open a 5 random women either attractive or not attractive to you. Preferably a big city so you can open up to any women and know you'll never see them again, unless you see them for day 2. If you can do five I suggest doing another five the next day. People always have approach anxiety, but you have to know how to handle it. Try this: Don't think of the feeling that you get (butterflies) as approach anxiety, instead see it as your body's reaction because you are really attracted to her.

And don't just talk to her, get to know all the people in your job. I'm telling you it would be much easier and not feel weird talking.
hope this helps!

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Thanks for your advice guys. Am still trying to come up with a good opener since I only get to see her when we pass each other on the street, and we are always going opposite directions. What would you suggest maybe I can customize it to suite my style.

BTW "Rap2010" I like your suggestion, but at the moment that's not possible. As the city is like 5 hours away and I would only be able to go on Sundays and reach back for work on Monday.

Which means I only have one shot at this, and I really don't want to screw it up or embarrass myself; especially because I pass her everyday. I don't want to see the person I tried to hit on and failed everyday nor have her see me everyday.