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i need a solution, my friend as helpful as he is cant help but distract attention because hes so good looking, it is rather annoying
do i need to get a new wing or what?
I am going to have to say that looks don't matter with your wing. I mean look at the wings that Mystery would have with him. Mystery next to Matador some might say that Matador would steal all the attention. The thing is though, Matador knows the game, and knows how to be a wing man.
It seems that you just feel insecure around this guy because girls are attracted to him right off the bat and you have to work a little harder. I suggest going through some routines as to what makes a good wing, setting boundaries, and making sure he doesn't take over the conversation just because his ego gets inflated when some of the girls start to give him attention. He should always be including you, should trying to be isolate the girl he wants, and you should be trying to isolate the girl you want, or just wing a girl so he gets the chick and vice versa. Learning to set your ego aside especially when you are young is very difficult. He always comes before pussy, remember that, he is your friend more than most any of the chicks in the club could ever be.