it's college, she's insecure, theres parties, it's college, theres booze and did i mention that it's fucking college?

this is sex on a plate, if you start spouting out your DHV stories, the little light taps on the arm, and some weird line to get her to kiss you, then unless she's really attracted to you, she's not going to have sex with you.

go direct, you don't need to pin her against the wall, but you do need to

LEAN IN CLOSE - fuck the leaning back to look disinterested, if you get close to her face, sexual tension will naturally happen.

EYE CONTACT - not wide eyed weird eye contact either, just gaze into her eyes seductively, don't even nod your head or smile at what she says, if you don't give a reaction, she'll qualify even more.

KINO - and not little touches on her arm or her back, she's not going to remember those, no matter what you think. touch her hand, and then hold it, and then caress her hand, if she starts caressing back, then you're in, i promise.

you can sexually escalate on your own from here.

So exactly what is the difference from what you are describing a 20 year old being in a club, and a 20 year old being in a college house party? It's the same shit, the game is the same, the approach is the same, everything is the same. You are basically saying, "Forget everything you know, it's college, you should just be able to whip your dick out and have her suck it."

did you not go to college? think what you want, the 3/4 years of college is when a girl can truly let her hair down, she can do what she wants, and she knows she won't be judged too harshly. girls want sex as much as us, if not even more, college gives them the perfect 'excuse' to take advantage of this.

Sorry, but she is still a woman, and it doesn't matter if it is a college setting. Kino isn't about a girl "remembering" she has been touched, it is getting someone used to having you touch them. If he never touches her, and all of a sudden is leaning in close and all over her it is going to be a huge inconsistency to how she views him and what she is accustomed to getting from him.

spend an hour lightly touching her back, then her arm, then her shoulder, then her back etc etc. i can high five a girl, hold her hand and move my fingers between hers, if she does the same back, i know she is attracted. that takes me about a minute, and it gives me a near definite answer to whether i can isolate her.

Don't listen to these guys, stay on your game. Kino escalation is just as important on day game, night game, college game, cougar game, high school game, any game involving a human being, because human beings yearn to be touched, especially by someone who has taken the time to build rapport and kiss close them in a fashion that is natural, not overly aggressive because the chick has had a few drinks.

human beings yearn to be fucked, simple as that. he can take my advice and escalate with a girl he's already got rapport with, or stay on his game, and take time to build even more rapport until he can finally get that right moment to take a chance at a kiss.

Dude, yes I've been in college, and still am in college. I didn't say anything about taking 3 weeks to escalate kino, did I? That is your interpretation of what the word kino means. I also didn't say anything about whether or not woman do or don't want sex, it is obvious they want sex, otherwise why would we be here? Her being in college isn't an open invitation for her to fuck every guy. Why do you think that the rules don't apply just because she went from location A to location B? Honestly, think about what you are saying, because it you are contradicting yourself at every corner.

where is the contradiction? the rules don't apply because she is now finally a free woman, it's like she's got no rules, and she's going to take advantage of it. and taking advantage of it, is usually fucking a lot of guys, simple.

3 weeks of kino, i see what you did there, hilarious. what is your interpretation of kino, then?

" i can high five a girl, hold her hand and move my fingers between hers, if she does the same back, i know she is attracted." Her being attracted has nothing to do if she is ready or not to be kissed. Lots of girls are attracted to lots of guys, doesn't mean if the dude was to walk up she would want to be kissed out of the blue. Stop feeding this dude nonsense, he doesn't even have the basics down and you are trying to tell him to just go crazy because he is in "college". Also it isn't a "right" moment to have a chance to kiss a girl, it is about building up enough physical comfort so that when the kiss comes, it feels RIGHT. Why are you so worked up about actually taking the natural steps to court a girl?

so me being sat there with her, high fiving her and moving my fingers between hers is the same as me walking up to her out of the blue and kissing her. also, did i say i can kiss her after doing this? no, i said i have a near definite answer to whether i can isolate her, which is what a lot of guys worry about. they don't know when they should get her to where they can really be alone, i highly doubt this is feeding him nonsense.

he asked how to seduce this girl, not court her.


There is a reason the stuff that has been written works, it parallels the way animals pick mates in the wild kingdom. Yet here you are trying to bypass steps, because you think for some reason I am talking about touching her arm, then her shoulder, then her back, then her tits over the course of a month. Where does this even come from? The advice I have given is solid, ESCALATE, don't dive in, there is a huge difference.

escalating fast works, if i want to fuck a girl, i know how to do it fast with out having to feed her routines, or nlp or whatever other method you wish to use. you're acting like what i am saying is nonsense because you haven't tried it, it's probably out of the norm to you that a girl will fuck a stranger within 15 minutes.