Hi.

I'm coming on here for real advice.

I've done some research on PUA before posting, and will admit I am definitely an AFC.

Anyways, recently I've become more confident with myself. I've gotten into better shape, and have mentally developed the confidence to talk to woman, without any fear of the outcome.

So, on Saturday, my friend invited me to come meet this friend of his who happened to live close by to myself.

When I saw this girl, I was attracted to her, and the three of us had a good conversation. She seemed happy to know that I lived near by, and made a clear note that we should see each other again. As I left, she gave me a hug, and told me that I was a really good hugger.

The next day, I saw her again with the same friend. I got good vibes from her again. I told my friend I was interested in her, and he was like nice man, I'll subtly mention that I had a great time chillin' with you just to plant a seed.

Anyways, a few days pass, and my friend is chilling at my place when he gets a call from that girl. He invites her over, and she comes over. She makes a comment to me that I look good, and at another point I caught her staring at me for a few seconds, to which I looked at her, made eye contact,and just smiled. She smiled back.

Anyways, she eventually left, but not before I tried to set something up. I played it like "You and your roomate should come over for dinner on Sunday night" (this was on Wed) She was like absolutley, and we exchanged blackberry contacts.

Now, at this point she left, and I was talking to my friend who knows her really well, and he was like I just wanna let you know that she is the type of girl to lead guys on, and does all the time.

He said those "signs" I'm getting from her are part of her "schtick" because she likes the attention, and has a lot a lot of guys chasing after her. He even admitted that when he first met her he thought there was something else, but realized he was just another sucker that fell for her ways.

There is no doubt that I'm going to pursue her, but I would just like some advice on what my next step should be? When should I contact her? I wanna play this one right because I like her, but at the same time I'm not afraid to get rejected by her. I will find out, but want the experts to tell me my best way to make her mine.

I would conact her on Saturday before 6pm or on Sunday morning...expect an excuse and blow it off with "thats ok another time then".

If she ends up coming then game her...she is an alleged attention whore/tease but I guarantee she doesnt go after just every guy...she probably figures you have potential. Play it James Dean style bro...embrace uncertainty and be charming.

This is my strategy to get this chick.

Since she's such an attention whore, and loves to make guys fall for her, I'm going to play it real cool, and get her out in a social setting this weekend. I've invited this other very attractive girl who I have seen on and off in my past. I am going to ignore the girl I'm chasing while flirting with lots of girls and being generally very social at the bar.

At some point in the night I'll find her when she's by herself, and I'll go up to her for a bit, use the push pull technique, and really make her want my attention.

What you guys think?

Careful, if you do pull that, if done incorrectly, the girl you're chasing WILL be turned off and will be completely lost. Best of luck, let us know how you fared....BUT BE CAREFUL!

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Klayton Mask
Haha Get it? Klay Mask

All good advice, but I think it should be added that you shouldn't just assume your buddy is right about her leading you on. Maybe he is just bitter he failed with her. I'm sure we've all had guys tell us a woman is a "bitch" just based on their own failure.

This is TOO EASY!!! When her and her roommate come over for dinner have some fine bitch sitting on your lap when she walks in playing with your hair and rubbing on your chest. Look up and be like, "Oh hey, ready to eat?" *SMILE*

Jealousy is the only way to get these bitches to respond sexually. Otherwise they will forever love to be chased. I say start gaming other women and keep her as a friend who NO EXPECTATIONS. However I know you won't do that...since you are already typing like you love this bitch.

You MUST be new to PU if you actually believe this.

If she is an attention whore use push/pull and freeze her out.

Reward her when she is nice and freeze her out when she isn't. Train her like a dog! Like Pavlovs Dog

I also think the comment about maybe letting her take a back seat, give her attention but dont be just another chump that chases her round the pub!

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Tony T

Thanks for the feedback boys.

Anyways, shit didn't go as planned. She never even showed up tonight, i guess you could say my friend failed to actually get her out.

However, I scooped the servers phone number. My friend, (same guy who failed with this broad I like) claimed he could get the server's phone number. After I explained to him that he's had a few opportunities to get the number, and failed, I suggested that if he doesn't get it I will.

Sure enough, next time she came to the table, I spat some game, and had her putting her number in my phone. She was alright, not going to pursue the number, but just wanted to show my friend that I got the kill with no problem, and made him feel like a AFC.

why all the "whore" bitches" remarks?? seriously guys, you think you show some sort of value here? you're trying to hard to show how you don't care about women.. this is kind of childish and disgusting... do you actually LIKE women at all?

anyway, man women who are flirty like the one you're taking about are not that hard, because they always give you the opportunity to flirt back, they want to find an alpha who can really spin her world around.
... but don't be a nice guy, don't talk to her about sad stuff and don't open up too much, those type of girls will "understand" you and "have a connection" with you but will lead you on.

Meet with her (alone preferably) and just flirt you're ASS OFF

good luck

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