I am enjoying the single life, casually dating guys. I met this one guy from okcupid. we have been casually dating for 2 months. I'm not looking for anything serious and he as an afc hasn't kiss me. I have already placed him in the friends zone but i enjoy hanging out with him. Last night he messaged me and mentioned that he liked me and asked if i liked him as well. I wasn't sure what to respond so i logged off. How would u handle it if someone told u they liked u? I prefer having multiple long term relationships. Like I said earlier I;m not looking for anything serious, but he seems like the type that does.

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you tell the truth.

duh.

which in this case seems to be "I like having options, and while you were a potential option when we met, I think of you know more as a friend than someone I want to get involved with"

there's no point in trying to come up with some kind of lie.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

"Sorry, I already have a pussy, I'm not looking for another one."

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Ahead of my time, like I live my whole life backwards.

tell him straight up!!! the truth will free him

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

definitely don't lead him on. he wouldn't tell you he liked you unless he thought you liked him. Whether or not you do, the AFC will think you do just because you're talking to him.

tell him how you really feel about him though. tell him what you like about him and that you dont see yourself with him in that way. i mean two months and no kiss? i've kissed a girl in five seconds. the most i've waited is like...a week. (my reputation precedes me haha)

just be honest with him, and most importantly YOURSELF.

if you don't want to hang out with him, then dont. you don't owe anybody any favors.

Spread Love
-Ders

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He he, love this!

Well, logging off is a pretty lame thing to do dont you think? The poor guy is probably losing sleep over it and feels terrible. Why dont you just say, of course I like you, you are a good friend! That way you avoid the drama and make him feel good as well. Ok, he is lame and boring but just finish him off in a good way or his AFC ghost will haunt you with patethic text messages and silly facebook applications...

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Prefer having multiple long term relationships? Lol, what the fuck does that even mean? Sounds like you are using him to fill your emotional voids, and when he asks for the pussy he thinks he deserves, you completely shut down and log off. Enjoying the single life? Doesn't sound like it...otherwise why are you dating online?