she cares or not.. id just be plain embarrassed to be fat.

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Why are you even posting? Please, die soon! You're the type of person who says shit like, "I want to die at 40, because I'm too much of a bitch to accept the reality of life." AKA, nobody loves you.

Well my BMI says that I'm not fat, I'm healthy. Maybe it is just low self esteem issues, but people tell me I am sometimes, and other times people tell me I am normal. I'm still confused about whole woman's mind after listening to the GWM audio tapes and hearing stuff from other gurus.

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i think working out is extremely imortant because it not only improves youre first impression it boosts your confidence which makes the hbs wet when youre opening there group ps ima go pump some mother fucking iron now..

^ This guy has the right idea. ^



jackb1900- accept the reality of life? are you suggesting that being fat is okay if you accept it..LOL.

The statement you made " I want to die at 40, because I'm too much of a bitch to accept the reality of life." Is completely ridiculous and you suggesting that being fat is inevitable is the viewpoint of a pussy. To be honest is the statement a person who gives up would make. You are suggesting that being fat is uncontrollable like death is uncontrollable. Being fat IS a personal choice... While death is inevitable. Your view of this subject is completely AFC and pathetic.

word of advice...BE A FUCKING MAN

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Um yes, being fat is okay because it is about becoming comfortable in your own skin. I see tons of big guys who get lots of play, because guess what? They don't give a shit if they have a gut, they don't give a shit if they can't run a mile in under 6 minutes, and yes for some people becoming fat is inevitable. I'm the AFC? You're the arrogant prick trying to say it is an embarrassment to be fat. By what standards? Look at all NFL lineman and guess what? They are all holding onto 60+ lbs. of fat on their gut and tits. The statement a person who gives up would make? I'm just identifying you as the insecure boy who still believes that physical appearance really holds that much water with women.

Where do you even come off calling me pathetic, when you are making direct contradictions to the inner-game that is trying to be taught on these forums? Do you even know what you are talking about, or do you just like to throw AFC and pathetic together in the hopes I'm going to be scared away? The statement that you can't accept the reality of life is a play on everyone being unique and different. It is obvious you don't know how to accept others, because you probably still can't accept yourself. I guarantee you are insecure and weak, and only feint at having confidence so you can barrel through the day without breaking down and crying. So please, SHHH! The REAL men are talking here.

in "the game", when mystery decides to shave his head, i think there's some line about "being bald is inevitable, but balding is a choice". maybe that's what we're talking about here. Sure, certain things are just genetic ("tendencies" might be the right word), but you can do certain things to accept what you have and make the most of it. Ultimately, it's that attitude that's attractive (the six-pack might just be one way to show it).

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well said man!- and you mean when mystery shaved neils head- it sounds like you said his own:)

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I totally agree with the notion that It is how comfortable you are within your own skin that is the over ruling factor. However going to the Gym really does help with boosting your self-esteem, and aides you in becoming your "best self". I do go to the gym quite a bit "slightly obsessed" to be honest.

But to get back to the original post evolutionarily speaking women are attracted to the inverted triangle shape (wide shoulders and narrow waist) apparently, according to a documentary I watched, conveys strength and athleticism.

and don't get sucked into that whole BMI bollocks, according to that i'm obese, yet I have only 13% body fat.

hope I wasn't rambling too much

You are definitely not rambling, and I agree 100% that men need physical activity to feel confident and strong. Going to the gym is a big plus with a lot of women, and if you want an active woman she will probably enjoy a man who works out. The way it was stated in the past 3 posts was perfect, I just thought this guy was being a little judgmental about the physical appearance of most men. I mean hell, look at a lot of tongans. I've seen them with VERY pretty girls, and they are basically brick walls. Attitude is the overruling factor, I like how that was put by the person posting above, so it seems the record is straight. Get a great attitude, workout, and don't become fixated if you are not the most lean person on the planet.

Dude, I think by the time you get down to having nothing on with a woman then your body shape doesn't matter so much. It's not going to be a deal breaker.

After all if you have being doing lots of hugging and other touching with a girl, you can get an idea of each other's body shape. If it was an issue for her, she would give you more resistance to the idea of letting you take all her clothes off.

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