...Through out my life, ive been sort of sheltered and didnt really start becoming outgoing till now. im 18 years old now, and i feel like i lack the social skills or sort of outgoing attitude i need to be considered fun to be around or an attractive person in terms of getting a relationship. like just recently i met this girl and we flirted alot over the internet, but then when i met her in person and hung out (with her sister...), we didnt have ANYTHING to talk about and now she barely talks to me and i fear is flirting around with some kid i know is sort of a player and is known for getting laid alot...plus shes a hardcore party girl, like REALLY hardcore party and the kid is just a big muscular beast...so yeah.w000h. im good looking as some girls have told me, but im short...(5'6-7), and im very muscular and i can play guitar REALLY well....only, i just cant hold an interesting conversation with a girl....idk i just cant think of things to talk about...leaving me dull and lame...
i can be funny at times, but i hardly ever talk in class ( i am shyish, never raise my hand, ppl sometimes forget im in the room...) but then sometimes im rly talkative when its the right moment. idk i just feel like i cant flirt well at all. i feel like i have the looks and stuff for it...just not the words to back me up. ive also had some rly bad experiences with girls and relationships and i guess u could say its sorta putting me down and gradually just making my social skills plummet out of depression of not ever getting lucky with a girl....

but anyway, how do i become good at conversation with girls or anybody and become more charming? i want to be noticed! i hate being neglected and i want to seriously change to a very social person!

p.s- dont get me wrong iv had a gf before, and im not totally clueless...but i always tend to have bad experiences with nearly every girl i happen to meet...just my luck. ( im a virgin, never even had a blowjob or handjob in my life...i know..sad..)

some1 cure me please? haha

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Gonzalo Armbrust