Typical inferiority complex ridden wannabe alpha dork.

Really? Really you don't think that Manny Pacpuiao doesn't have "SUPERIOR" boxing skills compared to you? Really you don't think that Tom Brady doesn't have superior football skills than you? If superiority and inferiority exist in these little games, don't you think that it's possible to have superior and inferior abilities in all facets of life?

What happened to you? Daddy forget to teach you how to ride the bicycle? Did you get held back in elementary school? Learning disabilities? Get bullied in 3rd grade? Do you suffer from any physical abnormalities? What is it?

Those of you who know ZIP, I urge you to stop "advice giving" to fortify your delusions:

1. It really, really, really won't help you make 2 + 2 = 7.
2. If 2 + 2 didn't equal 7 for you by screaming yourself to death, 2 + 2 certainly won't equal 7 just because you screamed it to others.
3. Most importantly, you're running this marathon the wrong way.

come on, really?

your thinking too much, when i say, no man is superior, it means we all have two arms and legs and breath air, not anyone can be better than someone great without training..

now was up with the name calling? i mean are you trying to make yourself feel superior, with your 1000+ post, i guess your better than us because you spend countless hours on a forum meant to help people? which is what i was trying to do. it's just another way to look at the world, but there will always be kasabi's of the world who are just in the way who will try to do what you just did.... do you think your cool? your not.

here's another quote, "when your feeling great, people will always try no bring you down"- suavaye

or

"you are your biggest opposition," or "if you dont believe you can win, you've already been defeated." there are millions of quotes JUST like this
so think twice before you try to write my words off as "Typical inferiority complex ridden wannabe alpha dork shit"

now what you have to say??? i cant wait lol

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Ezo said, "its usless to just tell yourself your better than everyone"

but what can you tell someone who really believes he is the proverbial "SHIT??"

NOT A DAMN THING (again ITS NOT THAT BLACK & WHITE)

but when your inner game is strong, nobody can shake your foundation, not even a kasabi

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Storm650

Yo! It sounds like your in with a bunch of great guy's there, if your feeling down now, just wait it out, think about how much you can take from these guys who have so many experiences, and reference points, think about all the mistakes they have made to get where they are, and how they can help you avoid some of there pitfalls.
I know, you feel outgunned, and the truth is you might be, but your all on the same team, so what i would advise, is just approach right in front of them, then succeed or fail, slightly beta yourself to them, ask them what you could do to improve next time ect. Tap into that resource and you will be a better pua for it. Think about it like this, you could have all the skill of the guy of 30 at the age of 21.

Your in no rush dude, times on your side. Just try and have fun with it.


Suavaye

Sup dude. You know, the footballer who dose not believe he can score a field goal, will always miss. But the nerdy kid who never put in the real practice who DOES believe he can make it, will miss worse and then moan about it.
You need to put the practice in and do the ground work for any endeavor as step 1, then step 2 is believing in your existing skills.

I am really into positive thinking and psychology, but thinking happy thoughts are not alone enough to change who you are, positive thinking is the cherry on the top, not the hot fudge Sunday that makes up who you are.

It easy to miss-label being arrogant as being positive, and i think that is what Kasabi has picked up on. Everyone loves the guy who believes in his own abilities, no one likes they guy who tell people how good his abilities are.

But hey, if it gets you the girl and your happy about it, that's cool.

Of those who have 2 legs and 2 arms, there is an entire spectrum of superiority vs. inferiority.
Applies to you and the rest who have no idea what they are thinking let alone what they are sharing with others.
Yes, but really . . . this doesn't take too much effort.
This is the MOST IMPORTANT part of your post. Do YOU think I am cool? YOU THINK NO!!! OK. . . That's the way it rolls . .

However, you kids only function on this narrow spectrum. You talk, act, walk, shit, sleep based on what you think others will think of as "cool". In regards to this thread, I suppose it means you'd like others to think that YOU THINK that "we're all equal. We're all good. . ." in spite of the fact that everything that you've written contradicts this philosophy.

This is puke inducing shit but really, I doubt you understand it and . . .you're in good company in this forum. I'd say 99% of all here will go your route.
- NO! This is what the inferiority complex ridden dork will ALWAYS think regardless of what others say or do. Get it?

What happened to you kids? Who did this to you????

Dude?

I would hope 99% was a little over the top. However, there are loads of "Pua's" like this now, but i do not blame them.

Think of how easy it is to get caught up in all the "i'm the man" nonsense. The new age of pickup is "natural game" so most people hit the forums armed with mystery method or some routine based game, find out about the natural method and are encouraged by a large percentage of the forum to take it up as it is "the best". The problem is, non of them bother to listen to the whole thing or put any work into the natural approach so they just come away with the underlying message of "i am the man" or "think you are the shit" which breeds alpha wannabes with no game and a loud mouth.

But, i said i do not blame them, and here is why. They are getting results. Even if only 33% of them are picking up woman, that's still an improvement of 33% an that's better than nothing.

There never going to change, there own arrogance blinds them so you/ we might as well let them be, and be happy for them. Whats the alternative?

im AMAZED at how much kasabi "knows me".. now one of the first things i learned about this pua stuff is, its like martial arts and everyone has a different style they gravitate towards, and this whole superiority vs. inferiority only applies to athletes because their goal is to be the best, in seduction there IS NO BEST only THE BEST YOU CAN BE.

@kasabi now i dont know what your trying to achieve by attacking what i have to say but it sounds like you may be mad at the world. (like somebody wronged you in high school or sum? )

this way of thinking worked for me when i was in this guys shoes because i was what pua's call, "a natural" before i even knew about the community. i didnt just wake up one day and say, Im gonna think im the shit cuz it makes me feel better, i put in the practice & i realized that women found me attractive, more than i ever would have dreamed! so to ground this fact into my personality when ever id see a guy who would act arrogant, or talk like he was better than anyone i remember that, unless someone has been to thousands of bootcamps and put in months of training devoted to a purpose why should i think they can do what i cant?
and for you to try and down someone's opinion is just lame


@double j i hear you, and nothing comes free, you have to learn how to do things, storm sounds like he knows how to talk to girls just believes his friends are better than him at it which is fine cuz they're your boiz and im pretty sure they would def. help him, i think if he changed the way he thought of himself compared to his friends(along with some practice of course) he wouldnt have any problem.

@kasabi what makes what you say sooo much more valid than what i say? i mean for all we know you could get no hoes at all, just be some guy on a PC, with lots of free time, who gives really good advice,maybe a little too often

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Agree 100%. The best that some of you can ever be is "SUCK SHIT".

This is the way of the World. If I thought I could dunk the ball like Michael Jordan, I would:

1. Be an idiot.
2. Be an idiot.

PU isn't your life. Basketball isn't mine.

"Every man I meet is my superior in some way. In that, I learn of him."

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This is the type of statement that makes one MORE SUPERIOR than those who might seem more superior at the time.

Sharplin, on another note, why haven't you written a report of your travels/sarges? Did I miss them?

They'll be posted up in the next few days. I've got a few experiences I'd like opinions on.

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If you seriously think that you are better than everybody else and that you are in fact THE SHIT!!! Then I would say that your inner game is not as good as you think it is. It is good, above average but not excellent. If your inner game is great, you dont need to think that you are the shit or even debate it. You are happy just being. You can accept that other people are better, being the shit is not important anymore, it is not an issue.

It is one thing to worship someone and think that he is the greatest and not take care of yourself. Its another thing to accept that other people are awesome too and respect them for it. Ill leave it up to you to figure out which one I consider strongest...

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

i realized that its too hard to put what goes on in my head when it comes to this whole whose superior to who into words, i dont think im "the shit" but im pretty close (hows that for inner game lol) and yea maybe their are people in the world who excel at somethings more than others but i think that should just fuel your drive to better yourself. u cant be wasting time admiring someone else, when u could be working on your own problems[/quote]

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I know that feeling all my friends are big pimps while i am just a petty AFC still i just dont know what to do anymore.....

^Who's got time to admire others when you're so busy patting yourself on the back?

Ezo,

I would suggest that "thinking this way or that" is a poor matrix for measuring inner game. People read "inner" and immediately think "thought process" when in fact what we're really talking about is how well your thought process communicates and manifests to action.

A person who thinks, "I am the shit, I am the shit . . . " does not necessarily have poor or good inner game. A guy who thinks this way but fucking slams a basketball over a 7 ft. center would be seen as someone who is congruent to his thought process and has strong inner game. On the other hand, the guys on this forum who demonstrate over and over again that they don't even grasp the elementary aspects of pick up who proclaim, "I am the shit, I am the shit . . . " would be seen as having poor inner game.

How does this apply to PU?

I've written this many times before. YOU DOPES keep lying to yourselves and others because that's HOW YOU THINK. Men are attracted to end results. We desire the girl who is HOT and BEAUTIFUL right now. We don't give a fuck about the girl who tells us that she's going to lose 100 lbs so you think women desire the end result as well. You think they want a person who is masculine, confident, etc . . . RIGHT NOW. So you just pull shit out of the sky and outright lie. What would you tell the girl who IS 500 lbs, but stands in front of your face and tells you that she is 125???

Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha. . . . .gurgle, gurgle, cough, cough, ha, ha ha . .

I am telling you over, over, and over again that THIS is EXACTLY what you are doing in front of women.

You need to realize that women are imaginative. They are fantasizers. They really do believe in the transformation of the frog to a prince. They are attracted to ability. They are attracted to the process. They are attracted to the story. Thus they do get emotionally attached to the male version of "I will lose 100 lbs" as long as there is congruency between what the guy says and what the guy does. This means that the guy who is for the moment an "aspiring basketball player" and knows his position in life, accepts it, and has a strategy for where he wants to be, has A LOT to offer a girl.

On the other hand, most of you will just stand there as fat 500lb bastards straight out telling girls that you weigh 100 lbs. They will laugh. Then you will call them bitches. Then you will come here and complain about bitches. Then you will come here to tell us that you "weigh 100 pounds". WTF?!?!?!

Some of you won't even understand this^^. To those who do, remind yourselves that the point of "pick up" is to pick up the girl who is in front of you. You're not picking up yourself and you're not picking up your uncle who told some pick up story from the 70's. Cater your pitch to the chick.