So I have this need, nothing dodgy (I appreciate this isn’t the place to mention anything like that)



I NEED to SARGE

But, I’ve moved to a new area (rural Sussex) and most of my mates down here are settled down.

My going out options are;

Out in Reading with my perma-single mate (see my earlier posts)
Out in Brighton with my two painfully quiet, coupled-up mates
The local pub on my own.
Out for a meal with any number of my married friends

Does anyone have any good suggestions for how to get out amongst the action? Bare in mind I am an old bugger (32)

I have put an ad in the “meet up and Wing” section but can’t get much interest.

Currently I am spending most of my time down the gym or working. But I need to sort my game and the only way is by getting out and trying stuff out.

I figure going out my own is the only answer, but how to do it and not be a loner. Going to gigs I guess

Good day,

If you cant find a local lair I would suggest taking your mates women out to malls pubs etc.. bring your mates too just have a fun time and use them as pivots build a routine that you can use with your friends. Always be opening, on the trolley, street corner never know where it can lead.. if you must sarge alone which there is nothing wrong with that have a good back up story as why you are there alone if even asked , like I just moved here trying to meet some new friends. Just interact with the whole place play mayor shake everyone's hands talk to them for like 30 sec each have something good to say be interesting by the time the night is over you will have met some new friends. If you really must have a wing get a blow up doll fill him with helium write wing man on his back go around and introduce him to your sets this will be sure to get a laugh, use him in the set like here he's perfect for you!

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Dude, Im your age! Im not old and thus, youre not old either.

Plus, you could definately pickup girls in their 20s, I do, no problem. I go out a lot alone, just to the local bar and just run normal game. (Normal for me that is, same as I do everywhere else.) Actually, my best sets come from when I am out on my own, when Im with my wing, I tend to teach too much.

Whenever I go out, I dont care if Im alone, I start talking to people and I rarely feel alone, always find someone to talk to. Plus you dont have to worry about your old friends thinking that you are behaving in a strange way. If you dont get into a set move to the next bar.

It is not impossible, it is not even improbable...

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Guys, top advice. Will go out and sarge on my own this weekend. Will update here how I get on