I'm tired of the standard Chode dates. dinner and a movie is something I'm starting to dread. Its not even fun for me anymore. So I've decided I'm gonna be creative and try to do something different with each girl from now on.

I've got a date this Thursday. I'm thinking about going thrifting and dressing each other up ridiculously then going out to some small local coffee shop where they're having a few local Indie/Acoustic bands playing.

I feel like the more random dates/ day 2s can help you convey more of your personality then going out to a club or the typical chode dinner and a movie date. But if that works for you then don't change up your style, its just my 2 cents.

If anyone has any ideas that have worked well for them post them up here I'm curious to see them.

~Nemo

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Itcha Boi Nemo!

Are you kidding? You have to move way beyond the world of dinner and a movie, that is child's play. Get with the program here buddy. Try things like:

picnics (weather permitting)
wine tastings
any live performance
sporting events
any of the various "festivals"
museums
the zoo
telescopes
pumpkin patches

heck, taking her to a bar for drinks, or meeting her there even, is often sufficient. How did you even get girls to go out with you? I learned the hard way many years ago when I told an 8 (good for me then) that I had planned dinner and a movie. Never heard from her again, she stood me up.

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The best dates involve a few or more activities, rather than just one thing like going to dinner. Doing this creates more memories, also, if one of the activities is boring, the overall date will still be remembered as a good experience.

In my opinion you're all approaching it from the wrong angle.

The first, foremost and most important thing, is what your goal is.

Losers enter an activity with the start in mind - i.e. "What date should I organise?"

Winners enter an activity with the end in mind - i.e. "I'm going to f-close, what's the best way to get there."

So, if we assume your goal is to f-close, then it's pretty irrelevant what the day 2 is. My most recent cold pickup whom I fucked, I day 2'ed her by going round hers and talking for a couple of hours. We then went to the local bar, had a drink, walked around in the cold, bought some cheap chips from a caravan and went back to hers to seal the deal. We didn't even eat the chips. We're good friends and fuck buddies still. The "date" if that's what you want to call it, was still pretty fun. YOU can MAKE it fun. Where you go or what you do is irrelevant.

You may want to do certain things or activities for other reasons though, which is fine. Point is, you should know or define these reasons first.

Oh, and by the way, the cold-approach lay before that was also from a day 2 (I was replenishing my harem, haha), and I took her to see a cinema (Valentines day, what a hot cast), then went back to hers and banged her. We didn't eat dinner again (fuck paying money or wasting time eating when I'd rather be banging her). Point here is, movie is so clichéd etc, but who gives a fuck. Unless you personally are bored of watching movies, then fine. But if you're avoiding movie "dates" just because you think they're clichéd or the girl will find it clichéd, in my opinion, you're approaching it from the wrong angle (this doesn't seem to be the case with the original poster in any case).

Point well made. Though I still think certain girls dread dinner and a movie and will value any originality on your part. Unless you're taking her to a 5-star steak dinner and you don't enjoy talking with her, I wouldn't follow it with a movie.

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I have several great "dates" that I love to use

1- Take her to a park with a playground (day or night), there is lots of oppurtunities for kino and its fun imho - climb a tree, go for a walk a long the beach (if possible) Also if she is adventurous u can f-close in public - hot!

2- Trip to the mall, the intent is too play dress up. The game is you pick several outfits for other one to try on, then when u r changing its really easy to get inside her fitting room to k-closs or f-close (this is so naughty, its my fav)

3- Walking around downtown a place with lots of high risers, you try and see how far you can go up in buildings and to see what kind of a view there is. Nothing says "romantic" like a spectaular view.

The best thing is all of these requires no $

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