Ive been in a relationship with this girl for three months now and we've always had fun together, never had an arguement and everything was going well. we both share an interest in the "supernatural" and joined a group which investigates ghosts and haunted places, attending their meetings every monday.

however in recent weeks i noticed she was getting obssessed with it claiming she could see ghosts at the meetings, could hear piano and violins playing at her house, when i could see and hear nothing.

then after one meeting she rang me after midnight (when i was in bed) saying she could see wolves in her house attacking her!!!!! apparently she thought one of the group members (a guy whose gay and she thinks he fancys me) sent them to attack her. she then sent him a text (which he forwarded to me) saying she had a rough night and could feel the group were sensing stuff about us (her and me) and mentioned to him she loved me as a friend, thats all. she then rang me asking if we could just be friends.

i went to see her that weekend and we had a hypnosis session at her house on relaxation (which she suggested) with one of the group members and she really enjoyed it. shes still alright with me kissing her on the lips and neck and i even mentioned we should update our facebook status that we are together then she replied oh, i don't go on there much.

i did not attend the last group meeting and she text me asking where i was? then her next text asked me to ring her as she needed to pick me up and we had to go somewhere. she asked how i was feeling and thought we were both still under hypnosis! so i went to her house made her a cup of tea and she mentioned she could hear voices in her head! she already had an appointment with her doctor so i accompanied her to the surgery and he refered her psychiatric doctor as a matter of urgency saying they will be in touch with her.

today i asked how she was feeling and she text back saying ok, but her appointment psychiatric doctor was not for 2 weeks. she also quit the paranormal group we were attending and is now looking to join another group. she also mentioned i know you still like to kiss me n all but we're still just friends arnt we like we discussed.x

i havent replied yet to her last text.

i love her very much i just never told her that and shes very attractive. i remember she sent me a lovely valentine card and the last time we had sex (3 weeks ago) she said i hit her g spot several times. it was only 10 days ago she was asking me to sleep with her which i declined then after the group meeting and seeing the wolves she mentioned about just wanting to be friends.

im not sure whether to continue seeing her or move on and start meeting other women.

please accept my apologies if this sounds all really weird!!!!!

Damn son that chick sounds creepy as shit. I would just fuck her if shes down to fuck and wouldn't put much more into it or expect much more out of it.

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Ahead of my time, like I live my whole life backwards.

Not sure what to make of this

Poor girl! Either you like her enough to help her through it. Is it worth it? Or you run, she does sound a bit strange.

It is up to you... This time it is wolves next time it may be your dick that is a cobra...

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Or she found the ultimate way to dump someone...

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

What is she being treated for, do you know? Is anyone else in her family aware of this, because it sounds like she needs help. Good thing the appointment with the psychiatrist is set already.

Edit: I know someone who had similar symptoms and is being currently treated. You caught it at an early stage and with medicine things do get under control. I hope she gets to see the doctor sooner.

thank you all for responding!

im not sure whats shes being treated for her appointments not for two weeks and she actually said i wish it was sooner. i thought it was all drink related cause she drinks about two bottles of beer a day and works at a brewery. however im not a doctor.

i know when she mentioned the hallucinations (or ghosts) to her dad he looks at me really confused.

anyway, also she mentioned after one of these paranormal meetings that it didn't feel right between us and i was more serious about her than she was about me. maybe because she still had feelings for her ex who she left last summer after 9 years of being together.

so i suggested she should go back with him as i think they would make a cute couple. but then she mentioned he had already met somebody else and moved on.

i still havent replied to her text from last thursday about just being friends. and no ones wrote on her facebook wall (not even her) since her "rough night" of seeing wolves and just wanting to friends with me.

ghosts? really??

i hope she's hot lmao

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que sara sare, LET THAT SHIT RIDE

ok, so the parents also know. it is almost a normal reaction for them to be confused initially but i hope they will take action on it and follow through with the doctor's recommendations.

whoever is going with her to the appointment, will probably be good for the doctor to have an account of what she mentioned to you. in my opinion, this part of the communication is best done before the doctor meets her, as discussing this in front of her might provoke a negative reaction from her and then she decides to keep it all to herself from that point on.

if it is possible for someone to journal her hallucinations and anything else that appears strange, the doctor will have a good view of the position. (hope she is not doing any recreational drugs)

I would make the hell out of there. No good can come from a psycho like that.

shes actually journaled a diary of her hallucinations! however i don't know if she would let the doctor read it though unless, i told her to.

whether she does any recreational drugs is something i am not aware of cause we had only been together three months. but i remember during an overnight stay at a haunted pub (which i filmed) she did offer me a tablet of something that would keep me awake, which i declined.

i would like to accompany her to the psychiatist on the 13th.

she also told me she had a dream she would be dead in 2012!!!!

she sound pretty creapy not my cup of tea but i dont no this is probably what u like about her ayy?
umm i think its all about assesing how much u want to put into it, cause she sounds like a pretty high maintenence chick and its gonna take a fair bit of work. but that all comes down against how cool of a chick she is, i think just ask yourself how worth it is it because u no u could find another chick and she might even be better ayy

Ok i thought id post an update.

i sent her a text saying "it doesnt bother me if you just want to be friends. i care about you a lot as a person. i like you and want to make sure you and i are not on bad terms. so i think its best we have some time off and see what happens in the future. we might be able to re build something else. x x"

she never replied to that text then a week later i was at a film party to celebrate the dvd release of my latest film. there was loads tagged photos on facebook of me signing autographs and people wearing t shirts with my picture on it and she started texting me again (obviously saw the pics) laughing with what replied even though it wasnt funny, etc.

but two days later she commented on another guys FB status saying "c u soon x" and hes now posting on her friends wall "Yes of course me and the luvly caroline.well come at about t time if thats ok?going 2 c if she fancy's doing something first,she ment 2 b coming 2 mine about dinner time.luvu xxxxx" caroline was her name and this guy (who she went to school with) sounds like such a nice guy he makes me want to puke!

anyway, i text her that she "should find herself a nice guy instead of a bad boy like me" and she never text back and i never text her since. her friends still dont write on her FB wall as much as they used to and i constantly meet hot women at dance classes anyway.