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Here's a little bout me. I'm 22. I looked into PUA back when the Game came out 3-4 years ago. I read it, looked at some Mystery stuff, and used it everywhere. Parties, librarys, fast food places, etc.
Everything worked great. I worked out every day (got a 4 pack, not quite 6 lol). I peacocked with some nice bling. Got me some nice clothes. Went from AFC to w/e the term is for most intereting person in the room.
Then I met my ex. I was with her for 3 years. We were pretty serious, aka I went back to be an AFC. My mistake. She broke it off, her loss. I'm not too upset over it.
So now, I've gone back to working out. I'm also getting back into the game.
A LOT OF THINGS HAVE CHANGED! holy crap! First off, Mystery's now a common term everyone knows... wow. When I was in the game, there was Mystery, David DeAngelo, and a few other original players. Now there's a lot more. More stuff for me to learn I guess.
So here's what I need help with. I know the basics of PUA, sarging, etc. From what I've seen, most of the basics haven't changed that much.
I'm having all the same problems that I had in my AFC days. AA, general insecurities, etc. I don't seem to have issues with talking to girls or sets, it's the approach that gets me.
Before, I used to wear bling, nice clothes and generally get a lot of flirty looks just walking around. I've grown up a bit, and I feel the bling to be a bit much.
My biggest problem is also the lack of time I have to do stuff. My friends are pretty dorky. We watch movies and play video games. lol So we don't go out to bars/clubs much. I'm pretty much stuck sarging on my own.
I just need some general tips to get back in the game.
I'm building up my physical appearance again (getting my 4/6 pack back, etc), I generally look more mature than I did 3 years ago, but mature doesn't draw much attention, unless I'm doing it wrong.
Help?
Also, I'm in Buffalo, NY for now. I'll be going back to Chicago after college, or I may move to NYC (not sure yet). Any members in the area? Anyone in Buffalo/Niagara Falls/Rochester?
The newbie mission should help with your AA. It's a sticky at the top of this section in the forum.