Hi all.
I am 19 years old, you could say I had a late start.. I just lost my virginity last year.
So.. I don't have that much experience in sex.. and orgasms.. making a girl orgasm.. or doing oral sex to her..
And I feel intimidated because I usually end up with older girls, that are from 20 to 25 years old.
Right now I am "seeing" a girl that is 25.. and well... to be honest I am intimidated, that she might expect a lot of things from me in sex (if we get to the point) that I probably don't know how to do ..
So, In my desperation, Im thinking of getting hookers, and "practice" with them ..
I know this may sound pathetic.. but what do you think??

You shouldnt be so worried and relax. IMO considering hookers is a very bad idea. Ive never been with one but its a phony experience and those gals are paid to make their customers happy.

Half of winning the game with women is acting indifferent, being confident with who you are and calming down/ relaxing. Thats what turns chicks on - not guys who have to much anxiety and act like you need to impress.

If sex isnt so good the first time, dont sweat it. Its not that big deal. Everyone has done it before. If she is a quality girl, she will wait for you until you find the right chemistry. If she acts weird after and doesnt talk to you, she is weird psycho romantic type and a complete waste of your time.

Trust me. Calm down, dude, You have nothing to worry about. Who cares if it goes well or bad the first time, just enjoy yourself and laugh off any awkward moments. If it helps, let her take more of a lead. Remember : she wants to please you. Dont even worry about it. Is there something speciifcaly that you are concerned about? If its premature ejaculation, dont sweat it too much. Learning to concentrate on your breathing will help fix that.

And dont apologize if you dont think it went well. Just carry on and act cool. Trust me, she will prefer that.

Im not a virgin ..
My 3 times I've had sex , I was unable to finish .. I don't know why .. But I have really never came while having sex..
Basically... what Im worried about, I don't know if this is influenced by the media or what.
But she's 25, I'm 19 ...
I'm worried that I may not hit her standards as in pleassuring her...
She's had up to 30 year old boyfriends, and she seems like a sexually active girl. At least the way she talks to me.. One time it was doing a lot of heat, so I told her "The heat right now makes me wanna take off my clothes" and she goes like "Arent you by my house? I mean it could be fun " ...
Its really.. intimidating me...
I may be repeating the same thing over and over.. but this is how I feel right now.. I know its nothing serious yet, but it is going that way ...
And well... to be honest it makes me feel a little insecure, sexually... because I know I can give her the time of her life non sexually, but on the bed, I don't know what to do ...

Dont be intimidated. Be cool, man. Dont worry about it. Who cares. Whatever happens, happens. She sounds like the type who will take the lead so let her. Just sit back and relax. Have a couple of drinks if that helps you calm down. The anxiety you feel will be your worst enemy, not any mistakes you make. Everyone has had awkward sex occasionaly. She will probably take the lead anyways and you will have a good sex from the sound of things. Who cares what happpens anyways. If she has experience with older guys and lots of experience, she will unlikely not be all weird about it. If you didnt go before when you had sex, thats great - you will last long. Sex with everyone is often different. You may realize you didnt go becuase the girl you were with or any other reason. If you dont go, just brush it off. I havent finished a few times. No big deal. I also find that the first time having sex with someone new is often not so good. It takes a few times to get the right chemistry. Understand this: Your worst enemy is your insecurity. Just act confident and calm no matter what, even if you dont feel it. Trust me. Who cares what happens. Just go for it.

What are you worried about? I hope you know the basics. Just get her hot and make sure you stick a couple fingers down there and she is wet. Then, let her "put it in" if thats easier. Dont worry about anything. Youll be fine. Have a couple of drinks to loosen you up

You made me realize I'm probably exaggerating things up ... I mean, she's probably not as sexual as I think she may be...
I'm calm now...
Thanks = )

It's a choice really. You can listen to those thoughts and "be intimidated", or you can ignore them so that you can just do what YOU want to do. That's the trick. It's a self control thing.