guys, i need your help on this.
i'm 21 years old and gaming a 16 years old girl, she was enjoying the conversation and later on told me that she's too young for me...
what's the best response here?
hoping for your help guys...thank you...

"wow, your picky.. too bad your not my type"
"Aw it's ok, I'll wait till you get over it.."

It sounds like you need to add some value to yourself but truth be told, there's quite an age gap between you two.

AFCCoffee

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Not to be an ass or anything, but seriously. You are 21! You are in the age when women actually reach their prime in beauty. Why the f*ck are you trying to get in the panties of a 16-year old? I myself am 17, and it's a bitch when I can't proceed with girls that are really hot, but in the 20's..

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sup dude, what u can do here is just DHV alot, show her that your cool, young girls are attracted to higher status, so show her that.

Was thinking the same. DHV, when she see's your the don, she'll be eating out of your palms. Don't even react to her at the moment, just do your thing, have fun, keep the chat locked in, let her see your enjoying life, she will be wanting you bad!

Here are my 2 cents...

1. Date only LEGAL girls.
2. Do date OTHER women.
3. Don't care either way if she will go out with you or not...trust me on this one...this can make or break you real fast.

I find that the older woman get the less of a problem they have with age. But while they are still in their teens, it can be a little bit weird plus they will be lacking in experience. 5 years age gap is no big deal.. Heck, I routinely date woman 10 years younger than me and I/they don't have any problem with it..Some woman actually WANT to date older, more mature men.

If she has told you some crap about the age gap, I think its just an excuse for some other real issue...But you can always turn it around on her in a NON-AFC way, like some people already suggested.

Best,

J-Dub

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You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

SECOND THAT !!!!

SECOND THAT 2!!!

Like seriously WTF!

I think this is the second most fucked up post I have seen in the last years........ just wow...you can do better than that man......

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seeing as your 21, it does look bad but if you vibe well, than why not?

but i agree, you could get into bars and adult clubs where women are getting tipsy and are more willing to have sex.


im a firm believer in "if there's grass on the field, play ball!"
but step out of the minor leagues

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que sara sare, LET THAT SHIT RIDE

Yo dudes... Can you stop bringing your judgemental side to this conversation ? In most european countries 15-16 is LEGAL... ANYWAYS

He asked for advice not "Hey guys, do you think me gaming that 16 year old is in accordance with your beliefs and ethical limits ?"

Advice a fellow PUL or don't talk.

But yeh past the whole judgemental thing those guys said, it is mostly true. Demonstrate HV, and expect it not to last for long. 16 yo are kinda hyperactive even when they are calm.

You can also force it a bit. Kissing her out of nowhere and continuing gently. She will say no at first because it might be her first time. if she REALLY says no firmly don't force it though. If it's not legal to have a relation with her in your current area, i can only advise u against it though. 1) legal troubles. 2) blackmails of all sorts.

I can understand if you are starting out and are afraid of talking to girls around your age and you are over coming approach anxiety but you relations with that young of a girl should end at a conversation. I was excited at the posting since it could have adressed a problem for people who look older and get asked that question.

Take what you've learned and try on HB's closer to your age.

That's a shit test.
Just reframe it with some C&F: "Yeah... now I remember why I don't go for kindergarden girls...". and make a suspense face.

She'll be trying to win you over in no time. Then DHV some more and you're in.

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'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries

[quote="Mind Hacker"]That's a shit test.
Just reframe it with some C&F: "Yeah... now I remember why I don't go for kindergarden girls...". and make a suspense face.

She'll be trying to win you over in no time. Then DHV some more and you're in.[/quote]

so so great

It should look strange. Of course it's not so unusual these days that a girl is 16 and the guy is over 20, but what the fuck? Aren't there girls that are a bit more mature than that one? Does that one even have to be an option?
I would use the previous response of kindergarten and just forget her .