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PostPosted: Fri Mar 26, 2010 11:58 pm 
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Yo everybody! (moderators, feel free to move this post if you feel that it belongs somewhere else. I'm new to this forum so I don't have a clue :p)
As my topic says, this week has been one of the worst weeks in my life and I'm wondering if it's just my inner game that's messing me up or if I did fail really hard at some place.
I'm starting to develope a one-itis here and my inner game is just burning ruins...

It will be very detailed, I hope you will read it all to help me :)
Even before our first interaction, one of my friends, that's in her class, told me that she's asking questions about me all the time and that she said that she likes me.


Ok then in one week I went from my absolute top to zero...

It all started last Friday, I #-closed this girl at my school after maybe 30 minutes of interaction (covered A2 to A3 for all the MMs out there^^), I also got a kiss on the cheek. Later I called her and we decided to have a d2 at Sunday.

Saturday, I sent some random funny txt messages to her, worked good she was definetl hooked :)

Sunday, we meet and have a great time. We went shopping etc. One of her friends appeared during our d2 and she decided to chill with us, no problem in the beginning but as the time went by, her friend seemed more and more grumpy and against me :S
Anyways, K-close and she was qualifying to me.

Here's where it's starting to go downhill:

Sunday night I text her something like: "Night you thief :), don't forget to brig my ring tomorrow (she "borrowed my ring) ;) < 3

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 27, 2010 1:12 am 
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So... then what happened?

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 27, 2010 12:45 pm 
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Damn... I don't know what's the problem but i can't post the rest :/ Trying to fix it though :P

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 27, 2010 1:05 pm 
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Yes! I fixed it^^

ok here's the continuation then:

She answers : Yes I won't forget it, se yaa at school tomorrow :) night< 33
Me: Good :) you know what, I think you're actually pretty cool, I'm getting curious about you< 33
No answer to that... :/

Monday, I text her during my lunchbreak, telling her that we'd meet at the lobby. I got a text from her where she said that she can't because she's at the hospital because of an injury.
My answer to that was something like this: oh, poor little one :s Maybe I'll call you later to tell a secret :)
No answer to that one either...
I call her later and we talk for approximatly 5 minutes, she said that she was glad that i called her etc.

Tuesday: I knew she was sent home last night because she told me, but she still didn't feel well enough to go to school.
I texted her some random/funny text. Works well first but when I then text her and tell her that I must go to my practise and told her to wish me good luck. She didn't answer.

I didn't text her or call her during wednesday because she wouldn't respond to my last text.

Thursday: I sent a text asking her how she was doing, in a random and funny way. I got an answer after 3 hours saying: pretty fine< 3
Waited 4 hours then before I called her. We did talk for about 20 minutes and I could her she was into me, she told me that she'd come to school tomorrow (friday, yesterday)

Friday: I told her to meet me at the lobby, once again. She answered: Sorry, I've got a fever :( < 3
I replied to that text, Oh :( could've been a little bit of my fault, I let you out in the cold to talk to dear me for a while:p < 3
and once againshe didn't answer.

*sigh* How should i proceed with this? I know many guys would tell me to go on but i really want to push interaction as far as possible especially when i know that she was/is in to me.
And why, in the name of god, doesn't she answers my "bye-bye" text? :/

I'd be grateful for some help, thx// TurboB

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 27, 2010 2:13 pm 
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Just another example of a guy thinking that you can spit a bunch of game and make the girl like you and then the minute she seems interested and sex seems inevitable he gets all crazy, puts her on a pedestal, stops doing everything that made her attracted in the first place, and becomes a stalker.

Also some of your texts seemed very weird/strange.

I'm so tired of reading posts like this. Maybe it's because I'm so experienced but it just seems like a really dumb ass thing that many guys do. I mean what are you guys thinking? Really??

Control yourselves. Be cool man.


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 27, 2010 4:20 pm 
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ok, I know this sounds cheesy but this girl is special, usually dont get a one-itis this easily... but you really hit the nail in the head.

could you explain the "be cool" advice a little more? should i've let her be for a couple of days instead of texting/calling her?

I couldn't see her because she was ill.

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You just started being a bit needy with the texts saying aw its my fault and with all the love hearts and kisses. Its always better for the girl to wonder if your still interested in her for as long as possible. It seems like you were just chasing and pushing things too quick , too soon .

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 27, 2010 7:42 pm 
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That's great advice; always make her wonder.

Ideally, if you asked a girl what her first impression of you, it should be something like mysterious, interesting, one of a kind... that kind of stuff is the mindset you should go for.

He hit it on the head when he described your behavior: sorry but that would be needy.

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 27, 2010 10:43 pm 
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Thank you guys! I understand and theese misstakes seems so afc now that I've got an other view of it...

But I'm still wondering if I did text/call to much... if that also displayed neediness or if it only was the content of the texts that did it.

And WHY THE HELL didn't she answer my "bye-bye" texts monday and tuesday? *sigh* :P

//TurboB

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