hey people,im 23 out in so cal LA area. im new to this whole pua movement but i aint new to girls. ive had some limited success with women but ive gotten to the point where i want to elevate my game not for the sole purpose of attaining women but to build and improve my life. I see alot of correlation between being a good pua and being happy. Im here to be a sponge and absorb as much as i humanly can. My life aint at the point where i wanted nor expected it and I want to take it by the horns and make it become what i want it to be.

seems like u got basic ground... heres a tip, and i tell this to everyone! stick to what ur good at and become a master of it.. like jamming on the guitar or building cars and shit like that... two, work out... i cant emphasize this enough. find a gym and work out where the guys work out at... dont be a pussy and work out at where the chicks are at. goto www.bodybuilding.com, im a bodybuilder for myself, its an excellent site and i recommend it to everyone. Go out more, make more loyal friends and learn to become a pack leader, (i sound like ceaser chavez) but leadership is good. start slow, if ur gaming 7`s or 6`s successfully, then try 7.5 and then move up to 8...

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Gotta Fuck em all! Pokemon!

Im good at art and drawing and i want to dabble with tattoos a bit...been trying to work out more...the good thing im not completely out of shape so i dont have too far to go. im going to take you up on the advice..

If you fell good about yourself then you should have no problems.

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thats the thing i feel good but since im not working i dont have alot of confidence...i keep telling myself that girls wont like a guy without a job

indeed we dont but it is also how you carry yourself. i mean a good first date with a girl that you like is a day at the beach or a picknic in the park or something. not all of us are as shallow as some of the others. and remember it id the little gestures that mean the most

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go to the lairs part of this site since LA is such a big place

[quote]indeed we dont but it is also how you carry yourself. i mean a good first date with a girl that you like is a day at the beach or a picknic in the park or something. not all of us are as shallow as some of the others. and remember it id the little gestures that mean the most

I try to carry myself as this fun loving adventurous spontaneous guy but you can only go to the beach for so long and you cant picnic when it rains so in some way i try to overcompensate for what i dont have....ive literally had girls pick me up and pay for the entire date but eventually they realize their putting more into it and split...or become "just friends"...or i get the "i met someone else"...its just frustrating

Good luck friend, thier's a bunch of material, judging from ur intro I would get an undestanding of tactics and routines lightly don't OD on them like I did, itll make u a robot. and then go straight to inner game and with everything you read and learn only use it if you can integrate it organically into who you are. Game can make you a douche, sometimes. lol

Good luck and Welcome

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Animals have "pickup" in their DNA, It's called instincts.

thanx...ive never really felt comfortable doing canned material cause it felt to unnatural but your idea sounds good...im gonna start treasure hunting for those little nuggets of info...