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PostPosted: Wed Mar 24, 2010 2:40 pm 
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Hey,

Like I told in a topic earlier I had a target which I would like to at least sleep with. The problem was that she had a BF. We turned around each other for 10 months also because my game was pretty awful and I didn't have the balls to close the deal.

Now I had a plan a while ago. I just got running a sort of game on another girl. She is in my class and I wanted her to make my target jealous. Since i've got bored of my target I chose my jealous making target as target..

The problem is. There is a great sexual tension which I feel very good in. We have much fun together and I also have some pretty good kino escalation going.

Now my question is. I really want to close the deal but I don't know how. The problem is that it is the new challenge because I never actually closed a deal on a girl before.

I was thinking about letting kino escalate to kind of hair touching or face and lean in to kiss her.. But Im starting to doubt anything I think like a shy schoolboy..

Tips?
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Well Solution,you already have the solution to your problem.

You already doing what you should be doing:Kino escalation.

Only thing is left now is logistics:phase shifting to the comfort zone.

Get her to isolation then kino escalate. You should not escalate(too much)around others.

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Well Solution,you already have the solution to your problem.

You already doing what you should be doing:Kino escalation.

Only thing is left now is logistics:phase shifting to the comfort zone.

Get her to isolation then kino escalate. You should not escalate(too much)around others.
Lol. I laughed about that first sentence :P

Yeah but the thing is. I think it takes to long and she won't maintain her interest in me. It's not happening yet but it will..

The problem is the isolation I guess.. Never been on that issue before.. She did used much kino on me last week when I wasn't even paying much attention to her at that moment haha. She got my attention after that. (She kinda escalated on me)

A friend of mine had some stuff for on his face and she asked if she could have some. She began to whipe it on my face and thats where the kino started. She also wrote on my arm with a pen and poked my love handles.. I saw this as big IOI..

I know she is waiting for some appropiate action of me though.
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here's something that was written on another topic
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The thing is though, it rarely is ever like THAT for seasoned PUAs.

You see a seasoned PUA throws little compliance tests all the way leading up to the kiss...

You: hey if it isn't my adorable side-kick!! Come on give us hug.
Her: [complies]

You:What don't i get a kiss on the cheek? (points to cheek)
Her: [kisses cheek]

You: Excuuuse me... I thought you knew i have a little french in me...and the other cheek plus i'm greedy!!! (big cheeky grin)

Her: [giggle] Oh really [complies]

Then you touch her arms... oh my god did you see that...blah blah blah...

escalating...escalating...escalating.


All the time you're waiting for that moment she gives you the doggy dinner bowl look ...Then you kiss her.

You see a kiss should never be just a bam, spur of the moment thing... If you do this properly you'll know if it is on or not... So there shouldn't BE any awkwardness or indecision? Get it??

Google vin Dicarlo's escalation ladder and gambler's stealth seduction vids.


And fuck this whole:-

"I'm leaning towards the idea that it won't work"
look, all those things she does to you ARE IOI's, but... the thing with "closing the deal"is that there is a right time and place for everything, you have to create a "moment" and USE that moment, you can't build attraction/comfort and not at least kiss the girl, when the moment is there JUST DO IT... don't think too much and go for it. co if you won't it might close the window of opportunity, and you will loose the attraction you've built

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I am not really busy with learning all those kind of lines. I know I could get the kissing done but the way too it is a little harder I think.

Wish I had a wing in my area..
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DAMN IT!!!!

It's not the lines!!! thats not the point it's the escalation part... you don't just JUMP on a girl, on the other side when she is ready you HAVE TO JUMP, coz if you won't she might loose attraction FAST

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DAMN IT!!!!

It's not the lines!!! thats not the point it's the escalation part... you don't just JUMP on a girl, on the other side when she is ready you HAVE TO JUMP, coz if you won't she might loose attraction FAST
Sorry. It was late for me. I know it's not the lines but it's more how you slowy working to it..

Got some more IOI lol.. When we sat in the canteen she and some classmates where sitting there already when I arrived. So I sat down and she said:"So you're already sitting close to me huh?" So I put my bag between us, I laughed and started talking to other girls.. I can tell on the look on her face she wants to have more than the fun we have till now..

So I'll try to grab a drink with her in the centre tomorrow evening after my evening class..
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Streetlight made the best suggestion for kino & escalation:Vin Dicarlo's escalation ladder aka the DEL.

I've literally laid every OYD(object of my desire-target)when I use the DEL.

When I don't use the DEL concept to KINOoing,I get no lay.

I tried KINOing by other MPUA(master PUAs)but failed mostly.

Vin Dicarlo's escalation ladder has never failed me when used it. Im about 12 in 12 when I use the DEL(over the past 2 years)-no bullshit.

But I don't think the original poster's sticking point is esclation nor KINO,but isolating the target.

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Only need a original or not TOO much dating scenario..

Today we had lessons in the evening..

She asked me out 3 times ;) She wants to date me on friday.. The tables are a little turned too much haha.. The dominance is on the wrong side.. She wanted to have dinner at A restaurant with me.. I need to come up with something else because I think it's too normal to have such an date :P

She uses more kino on me then I am using on her.. I was talking to other classmates (female) and she suddenly standed right in front of me too get my attention haha..

Any tips? I could cook myself but I rather don't have my parents around..
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Listen,stop fucking around and just Fclose this chicc already!!!

You cooking should be out of the damn question unless it's going to lure her to your place.

If cooking for her will get her to your place(isolation),then go on and cook 10 damn meals!!!

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Listen,stop fucking around and just Fclose this chicc already!!!

You cooking should be out of the damn question unless it's going to lure her to your place.

If cooking for her will get her to your place(isolation),then go on and cook 10 damn meals!!!
You think it's that easy. Maybe it is.. But I'm not experienced on this level so..
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Listen,stop fucking around and just Fclose this chicc already!!!

You cooking should be out of the damn question unless it's going to lure her to your place.

If cooking for her will get her to your place(isolation),then go on and cook 10 damn meals!!!
You think it's that easy. Maybe it is.. But I'm not experienced on this level so..
..look, man have ALWAYS fucked women, you don't have to be an EXPERT in anything to lay a chick that likes you, you just have to get rid off youre inner walls.

It's not that easy only if you think it's not.

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Listen,stop fucking around and just Fclose this chicc already!!!

You cooking should be out of the damn question unless it's going to lure her to your place.

If cooking for her will get her to your place(isolation),then go on and cook 10 damn meals!!!
You think it's that easy. Maybe it is.. But I'm not experienced on this level so..
..look, man have ALWAYS fucked women, you don't have to be an EXPERT in anything to lay a chick that likes you, you just have to get rid off youre inner walls.

It's not that easy only if you think it's not.
When she wants to have dinner why not have it but then my way.. Yeah I suppose I could just on her.. But won't she feel used after that? Im thinking a little but forward on this one because I don't want a one time fuck if you guys know what I mean..

Friday will be the day.. I will talk about it on monday because I accidently didn't ask for her number to keep the tension high enough..

Furthermore I don't want to have the hole family around when I take her to my place..
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Great point Streetlight about inner game.

Solution,stop being so thoughtful in this.

I get that you don't want it to be a hit & run but after a while,tis girl will be wondering what the fuck is wrong with you for not laying her already.

You claim that she kinoes you lie crazy and she's so into you via IOI's...well,the process should be easier for you,right?

Whether you want a LTR(relationship)or fling,one must advance where possible or the target will start to believe that you're a weak guy or a guy who doesn't know the process.

Escalate where possible.

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Great point Streetlight about inner game.

Solution,stop being so thoughtful in this.

I get that you don't want it to be a hit & run but after a while,tis girl will be wondering what the fuck is wrong with you for not laying her already.

You claim that she kinoes you lie crazy and she's so into you via IOI's...well,the process should be easier for you,right?

Whether you want a LTR(relationship)or fling,one must advance where possible or the target will start to believe that you're a weak guy or a guy who doesn't know the process.

Escalate where possible.
You guys are right. I am thinking too much.. Should just go with the flow like I already did till now. Maybe I should just take her monday.. Who cares.. The sooner the better
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