Hey Guys,

If there is 1 part of the game that I absolutely suck at it is this. I am so scared of commitment. The reason is that the last relationship I was in was an 8 year relationship and I was seriously unhappy and so was she. Personally I feel that all men are supposed to be polygomous. I understand that society has now said that it is wrong but I sincerely believe now that I cannot be in a monogamous relationship.

Here is the catch though... I have been gaming this one girl for say the last 2 weeks and guess what gentlemen... Me, the emotionally challenged, AMOG, with almost no value attachment has met a girl, who could quite possibly be my one-itis. I know better than to get emotianally attached to females but sometimes it's like a snake in the grass that pops up and bites you in the ass when you least expect it...

This is the first time in about 3 years that I have started to form some sort of emtion for a women and I like the feeling but also dont. Thing is, she is really into me but here lies the problem, I am seriously falling for her... This sucks, because her type is not the type that deals well with polygamy and I love my lifestyle. Everything about me has been carefully built and planned and placed there conciously to create a lifestyle. I have gotten an interesting group of friends, interesting job... I have built a lifestyle, which she appreciates and enjoys, but they always do until you start something serious then they try and tame the beast.

I do not want to be a love sick puppy that falls back into my AFC ways due to a LTR. I would do MLTR but she will not accept that and I would have to sacrifice her, which is hard when you get attached.

Her face is a 10, her body is that of an 8.5, but her attitude and her value to me makes her a 12 on a scale of 1 - 10 and I do not want to lose this one. I have not been acting like an AFC because I want to be a high value male, but at least I can honest here and tell you guys how I really feel inside.

What can I do??? I want her!!! I dont want to give up this lifestyle!!!

I think you know what to do

The reality is that there's only three options here: #1 keep her give up the lifestyle #2 keep the lifestyle and give up her, and #3 keep her and keep the lifestyle secretly

It all depends on how you feel about her and the situation =)

I know, I know... Wish I had more options/different options. Cant all women just be fine with us being polygamous???

I would choose option 3 ten times over but this is 1 of those that I dont want to lose... This shit sucks.

Then just be exceedingly careful =) 2 cellphones and whatnot. You can always quietly change to option 1 when you feel like settling down

What lifestyle? Having sex with multiple women? That would be the only thing you'd be considering giving up, right?

What is so great about her that you don't want to lose her? She's hot? So what. I think that the fear of losing a girl will make a guy end up doing AFC-ish things and lessen his attractiveness to the girl.

man let me tell you this right now. we have all read the game here right fellas? an MLTR is completly realistic and possible it is all in the tongue twisiting of it. It all starts out with creating harmless love triangles ya know opening a set while with her just to get an opinion and have some harmless flirting (dont ditch the girl you are falling for just toy with her a bit) and eventually you can lead into a time and place where a dual inductiton massage will have its place and when both of you guys sleep with the same woman at the same time its all fair. Im telling you its do able. You don't need to sacrifice anything. Your an alpha. Remember that from now on.

This is the thing though. I have put way too much value on this particular HB and I am doing AFCish things around her. I know I am better than that but we all run into 1 HB that breaks our game every once in a while!

It sucks I know. Think I should just cut her loose and keep sarging the rest. They all feel the same on the inside dont they?

I would keep in mind at all times that I am the man and would act that way. And I wouldn't fear losing her. The fear of losing a girl will make you act like an AFC.