Im here because of an ex boyfriend because he claimed to want to be with me and marry me i even had the ring. then he took me for everything and now i know how. all of you people gave him advice on how to destroy women. gee thanks. I was actually in love with the man and you sad people warped his mind with all this player bull sh*t. thanks gents.

my advice to you all is this.

if you want a woman for more than "the game" ( the most twisted fucking book ive ever seen) and want a real relationship then GROW A PAIR! Look at how you dress. women do not like slobs. LEARN TO LISTEN AND STOP USING FOR THE BODY! Do not owe any ex's money! be responsible and self aware. have goals and actually do something to obtain them. Stop using sites like this. it makes you look bad and trust me 90% of women google the man that they are dating! hell i wish i had.

i know some of you are just shy guys and that is ok. you can be shy. we like that. we like our doors opened we like having our hand held in public. its the little things that " WIN" women. not how fast you can sack her.

and HAVE RESPECT FOR YOUR SELVES AND THE WOMAN YOU ARE TRYING TO OBTAIN! even if it is just for a " one nighter" if you dont love yourself then you can never love another.

there are some of you who just want to meet new people and have an actual desire for a real relationship. the rest are just sad men who are too self absorbed and shallow. go to a fuckin bar and get a girl a drink. stimulate HER MIND and then she will more apt to date you. and for christ sake dont be a using douche and dont lie! if you want an open relationship or to date others that is ok just let us know in the beginning so we dont fall for you and get our hearts ripped out. NEVER TELL A WOMAN YOU LOVE HER IF YOU DONT!

anyway that was my rant to all of you.

Donna

Hi Donna first of all welcome to the forum,Im new over here too!!

We dont destroy women,we play the game,the game of seduction.We do something similar as many women do to us;PLAY!!

You have to admit that women like to test the guy they are dating sometime,at least thats been my experience ever since I kissed my first girl when I was 16 years old,most women I have met in my life have played with me and my feelings ans I never realy realised why until I read the book THE GAME,now I have learnt to understand women,now I know a bit more about the way they think, thats why I am into this and beleive me it hurts when you get to met a woman that you realy like and she just ends up messing you around and f****ing you up!!

Why you do it???well...I guess some women when they realise a guy likes her they just start to play with their feelings,might be because it makes them feel more femenine and level their selfsteam up.

Im not into this to try to sleep with as many hot women as posible but to get to learn how to atract women who I feel something for instead of end up all messed up and hurt.

So yes in my opinion all this is just a psycologic game wich women have been playing ever since the beginig of human kind existence,its just the way it is, and we men are just starting to learn,as the author of THE GAME Neil Strauss says "I recomend every man to learn it"

This is my opinion and also I should add that it might be a good idea for you to stay on this forum and learn about all this if you dont want to go trough a bad experience with men again.

All my regards.

Sorry for your trouble Donna,
but im with my friend above on it---it works both ways---most of us here started out being nice guys who respected women and got fucked over because of it---numerous times,then we found liberation through Neill and the others teachings.

In an ideal world the Game wouldnt be necessary---but you girls im afraid brought an awful lot of it on yourselves, the game is the result of women being quite frankly mentally unbalanced, players and users.

Im speaking in general here not of you personally--women had a good run of it for a long time and they overplayed themselves---you reap what you sow

Look, Donna, you're always going to have people who are just there to play the game to use women and those who play it to satisfy or fortify other aspects of their lives.

While your ex may have done this to you, it doesn't mean everyone who uses this sort of ideology will. I myself only recently started getting into it because I'd like to have more confidence when approaching groups of women. I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship, but I'm not looking just to get laid either. It's just a matter of finding a way that helps me in situations that are traditionally more socially stressful.

Now I know that you're hurting from this, but please don't blame the whole community for a specific occurrence like this. Yes, I'm aware that it happens more often than just your situation, but ruining relationships and turning women into objects is, well, not the objective.

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Look, Donna, you're always going to have people who are just there to play the game to use women and those who play it to satisfy or fortify other aspects of their lives.

While your ex may have done this to you, it doesn't mean everyone who uses this sort of ideology will. I myself only recently started getting into it because I'd like to have more confidence when approaching groups of women. I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship, but I'm not looking just to get laid either. It's just a matter of finding a way that helps me in situations that are traditionally more socially stressful.

Now I know that you're hurting from this, but please don't blame the whole community for a specific occurrence like this. Yes, I'm aware that it happens more often than just your situation, but ruining relationships and turning women into objects is, well, not the objective.

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-Fortune favors the bold-

Look, Donna, you're always going to have people who are just there to play the game to use women and those who play it to satisfy or fortify other aspects of their lives.

While your ex may have done this to you, it doesn't mean everyone who uses this sort of ideology will. I myself only recently started getting into it because I'd like to have more confidence when approaching groups of women. I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship, but I'm not looking just to get laid either. It's just a matter of finding a way that helps me in situations that are traditionally more socially stressful.

Now I know that you're hurting from this, but please don't blame the whole community for a specific occurrence like this. Yes, I'm aware that it happens more often than just your situation, but ruining relationships and turning women into objects is, well, not the objective.

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-Fortune favors the bold-