Hey Guys,

Seriously really need to talk to you guys about this, I really did not know who to turn to, but this community definitely is one of them:

So here it the backstory:

I've known this one girl for maybe 3 years now, but I never really talked with her, we just hang with the same group of friends.

So I recently had some ok chemistry with her, and I was planning to ask her out on a one on one and basically just play it straight and tell her I like her and all that, but the way I set it up was kinda a mistake:

Text Message:

"What are you doing Saturday, I need to talk to you about something important. Its about someone you know."

Then I said I would call her about it, and when I did she basically pestered me to tell her what it is all about, which I just said it would be better to talk in person.

I mean I've gone on a 1 on 1 with her probably 3 weeks ago, I got some C&F going and it was okay, but through the phone conversation she definitely does not feel good about 1 on 1 dinner.

Judging from the reaction, I am not sure how best to proceed, what do you guys think. Really need your guys input on this one.

Thanks in advance!