Hey all, I ended up hooking up with this girl from my group of friends, we've been hanging out lately and last Saturday we ended up watching a movie together, The Crazies. We came back to my place and started fooling around, we were about to have sex but I couldn't get hard, it was my first time after all, but I told her I was nervous and she didn't seem to mind, we just spooned and made out. Last night was St.Patty's day and she came over with our friends to drink, maybe because we were drinking and being social, but I hardly got a chance to talk to her, I wanted to hook up with her again because I didn't tell her I was a virgin, so she probably assumes I was just really nervous. I want to get with her again but I am shy and I was really drunk so it just made it worse. I doubt she just wanted me for a one night stand, what should i do?

Forget being shy, that will just keep you alone. Be bold take a chance, call her, txt her or wotever. Just ask her to hang out. DO NOT tell her ur a virgin, once u do it the first time life gets better n better so even if your not great she will think it was just a one off because ull improve fast.

Also what do you want with this girl ? dates ? relationships ? or just sex ?


Just dont be shy or nervous, just think of the reward you will probably get if you just take the risk and ask her to do somthing. Cos you didnt make much effort to talk to her last night, shes gonna think you dont really like her.

Perfect way to ask her out again, "Hey you, hope you had fun last night, didnt really get a chance to see you (speak to you), we should go out again at some time (or be specific with date or time)."

Show interest lol since your might have a lil repairing to do since you didnt talk to her last night.


DO IT ASAP lol good luck

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if you'll get the chance to talk to a girl about those things you'll find out that her thoughts are not that simple
she probably assumed youre a virgin\gay\she's not hot enough\impotent


and actually those thoughts might drive her crazy enough to come bk

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its been about a week since then, i went over there last night to study with her roommate who is in the same class as me. I'm starting to think i should just move on, she wanted me to call her the night before. I want to do her but I feel I am getting little to no IOI's compared to before we fooled around. I don't think of this girl as a potential girl friend, I really just want a fuck buddy right now.